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I've been attending a particular kind of grad school for the last couple of years. I'm now $100,000 in debt, and my job prospects are BLEAK. I've been reading about guys spending over half their (meager) paychecks just to pay off student loan debts. I went back to school so I could be...

I'm thinking about moving next year. I have a lot of trouble meeting women.

I keep having bad dreams about a girl I used to work with and would like to make them stop. I haven't seen this girl in two years and haven't spoken to her in one year. All the guys at work thought she was hot and used to ask me why I didn't ask her out. I didn't ask her out for two reasons...

I have a crush on a girl who works at a coffee shop around here. I've seen her there for two years and only talked to her once (extremely briefly). This is partly because she has a ring on her left ring finger. The thing is that I've never actually heard her talk about being married or having a...

So I was talking to a girl the other day and told her I was in school. When I told her my age, she wanted to know what kind of job I had before I went back to school. People - especially women - keep asking me this question. I HATE this question because it forces me to confess that I had a very...

I'm not sure what to say other than "hello." It seems odd to ask a woman what her interests are when her profile already lists them. Should I just go for the jugular and ask her if she'd meet me somewhere?

I agree with the poster who started a thread about the worthlessness of clubs and bars. I've been to several meet markets in my city. The women there generally act like teenagers, dress like hookers, and don't seem to want to interact with people outside of their entourage, anyway. It's...

Can't help but wonder.

I have my eyes on a girl I have seen around campus. She is hotter than the Fourth of July. I have stood next to her in line a couple of times but failed to think of anything to say. I'm very nervous about approaching her because she hasn't shown any signs of interest. For example, she never...

I was just curious if anyone else felt that the supply of attractive single women seems to be rapidly diminishing. As I get older (I'm 28), it seems like every minimally attractive woman in my age group is either married or has a boyfriend. I'm getting incredibly frustrated. I didn't go back...

Here's the latest: I am now 28, still a virgin, and still have not been on a date. I don't understand why women give me their phone numbers, without my even asking, then don't want to go out with me when I call them for a date. I don't think I'm obnoxious, sarcastic, or otherwise unlikeable...

I recently summoned up the courage to approach a woman (a total hottie) I have seen around at the office but don't know. As an excuse to approach her, I asked her for advice about something. Within a couple of minutes, she gave me her cell phone number (unsolicited) but continued to give advice...

I know this is asking for it, but I can't help but notice that the only women who have shown interest in me in the last ten years are just plain gross and badly need to attend fat camp. Inevitably, they end up sexually harassing me after I spurn their advances. All this got me thinking. 1...

What are the odds of someone in his late twenties finding a genuine hottie in the same age group who is NOT divorced and does NOT have rugrats crawling around? Is it me, or does it seem that most women in their late twenties, especially the hot ones, are all taken? It seems that the only ones...

I was wondering if anyone here has ever been in this situation and how they escaped it. I'm in my late twenties and haven't had any friends since I was a teenager. I have never had more than one or two friends at a time or for very long. "Aquaintance" might be a better word; I have never had...

For purposes of attracting women, how important is it that a man be outgoing (i.e., an alpha male who surfs, snowboards, motorcrosses, goes to upscale clubs, and so on)? Would women lose interest in a guy and dismiss him as a square once they discover he is introverted? Or would they remain...

Should a guy ask a woman out if she hasn't signaled an interest in him? Or should a guy ask out only those women who have flirted with him in some way? Is it possible that many women just like to keep their cards close to their vest, expecting that guys will ask them out anyway? The reason I ask...

Several weeks ago, I posted that I was a 27-year-old virgin who hasn't been on a date. Like I said before, I've read the DJ Bible and realized how badly I've screwed up with the opposite sex for most of my post-pubescent life. So please don't think I'm blaming it on God for my lack of success...

I recently overheard a very attractive woman talking about how she was sexually harassed at some club. While sitting at the bar, someone reached up her skirt and put his finger where he shouldn't have. When she turned around, she couldn't tell who the culprit was because the place was so...

I hope someone here can offer advice to a novice Don Juan. I'm 27 years old but haven't had a girlfriend, a date, or any kind of sexual relations. I ended up this way for the usual reasons: extreme shyness, lack of basic social skills, and no friends to help me out. The most I ever did was...