"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hot woman gave me her number

Stavrogin

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I recently summoned up the courage to approach a woman (a total hottie) I have seen around at the office but don't know. As an excuse to approach her, I asked her for advice about something. Within a couple of minutes, she gave me her cell phone number (unsolicited) but continued to give advice for quite a while until I was forced to excuse myself. In other words, I don't think she gave me her number just to get me out of her hair. She spoke almost the entire time and did not ask any personal questions or, as far as I can tell, signal any romantic interest. For that matter, I didn't signal any interest, either, unless she interpreted my inability to wipe the grin off my face as a sign of interest. So here are my questions:

1. Would a woman give her number to someone so soon to someone she doesn't know, if she weren't interested in him?

2. Do some women just not signal interest? Or is it a sign of interest that she would want to talk to me? Or am I falling into the trap of thinking that any woman who doesn't splash me in the face with her drink must like me?

By the way, I don't know if she's spoken for - I forgot to ask! - but I've been told she's not.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hitman10000

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I'm not going to answer your questions cause it's practically a non-issue until you have sealed the deal and you haven't yet.

Give her a short call on Sunday night and ask her to join you for a drink/coffee after work on Tues/Wed.
 

KoalaKing

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I wouldn't bother to get a hot babes phone number until after I've kissed her and known that she was mine, its pointless, just work up the courage to kiss the girl, then you will quickly find out if she is interested in you or not. :cool:
 
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