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This forum probably needs it less, but there are still guys out there who are really needing a wake up call. TTT

I’m not saying you cannot be friends with a girl, but if you have a secret crush on her and allow yourself to sit in this position of being her shoulder to cry on, then you are a doormat. Sure, it’s a nice thing to do for her, but what about YOU!? This is exactly what I am talking about when...

Darth's Guide to Successful Dating, for Men: This is a guide to help men do a number of things. The target audience of this Guide are Men who consistently have trouble meeting women and getting a dating relationship started with them. Most of the guys in my target audience always seem to...

Sounds like you are going to do what you want to do regardless of the warning signs. If you do go forward with this, and you notice yourself falling for this girl, I'd back off ASAP if I were you because this girl is throwing up some big time red flags already. If you insist on persuing...

HR8 has a boyfriend. I'd tell her that you don't mess around with other guys girls. Tell her she can give you a call when they break up and maybe you'll be available at that time. Sounds like you played most of it really well.

Don't give a girl your number unless she askes for it, and only after she gives you hers first. If you get hers and she askes for yours, that's a good sign.

Well the whole "This girl has a boyfriend" comment changed everything I was going to tell you. I was going to tell you that when she said: "Who do you go out with?" That you should have said, "Friday I am going out with you." or something to that effect, but since you added that bombshell...

wear a condom and have fun.

Wear a condom and don't get attached.

The girl is not interested and your buddy is right. Why? Well it's clear that you just hang out with her, and have nothing to offer as far as conversation goes, unless you are on the internet. Sheesh. I'm sure she is drooling to date you. I'm not saying this to be mean, but seriously...

Hey, I wouldn't be surprised if that boss WAS getting something from her. I never trust a girl who hangs around someone, and then badmouths them once they are gone. HUGE red flag for me.

That's all good, and he doesn't need to be doing EVERYTHING with her, but if she is making plans on Holidays, going out of town, and doesn't bothing letting him know before deciding, that's pretty disrespectful and I wouldn't stand for it, and neither would I expect my girlfriend to stand for it.

Do it on occasions as a surprise. Other than that, it's not necessary and can lead down a road of being taken advantage of.

Look, I am all for the "you're being clingy" post to most guys, and maybe he is a little bit here, but that isn't the problem. The problem is disrespect, and I wouldn't tolerate disrespect. For one, why can't she include you (The OP) in her plans? Does she ever try to? Two, why can't...

She's not interested in you romantically anyway. If anything, she probably taking you for a ride just like the boss. Why are you trying to be there all of the time anyway? To me that is the most telling thing of the story. I have a lot of friends too, and they have problems as well, but I...

If a girl was really intersted in you, she would find time to both go out with you, and reschedule when she is too busy. Her chatting it up with you is probably either an attempt to lure you back in as an admirer, or just innocent chatting. Nothing here folks.