"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ive seen and talked to this girl for about a month and a half now.. shes always flirted and smiled alot at me, So today at lunch i walk in the store where she works and the convo went like this

Me: Hi, How are you..

her: Im doing good...

Me: hows school goin?

Her: Good... I have time off from school... how Have you been?

Me: ive been alright.. *smile*

Her: Your working?

Me: Yeah im on my Lunch Break..

Her: ohh... you havent come into the store much lately... *smile*

Me: ive Been low on money, I spend alot during the weekends..

Her: Oh.. You go out... With who you go with?

Me: ......why? *smile*

Her: Who you go with? With who?

Her:... Your girlfriend?

Me: *smile* I dont have a girlfriend...

Her: *kind of rolls her eyes*..... Yea Right.

I was thinking......She went back to doing what she was at work... What do you guys See this as?? what is this chick doin..
BTW, this girl has a boyfriend... What step should i take? Foward or Back Step?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well the whole "This girl has a boyfriend" comment changed everything I was going to tell you.

I was going to tell you that when she said: "Who do you go out with?" That you should have said, "Friday I am going out with you." or something to that effect, but since you added that bombshell ending, I am going to tell you to stay clear of girls who are unavailable. If they can cheat on their boyfriend they can cheat on you.
 
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Yeah i see what your saying. Why is she so concerned with who i went out with or curious if i went out with a girlfriend, plus assuming i have one... whats the reason behind it.. I wouldnt mind goin somewhere with this chick.. shes hot.. But i wonder if i should move this foward or just back off...
 
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Originally posted by In2theGame
Yeah i see what your saying. Why is she so concerned with who i went out with or curious if i went out with a girlfriend, plus assuming i have one... whats the reason behind it.. I wouldnt mind goin somewhere with this chick.. shes hot.. But i wonder if i should move this foward or just back off...
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Sounds like you are going to do what you want to do regardless of the warning signs.

If you do go forward with this, and you notice yourself falling for this girl, I'd back off ASAP if I were you because this girl is throwing up some big time red flags already. If you insist on persuing this, then make it just a fling for fun, but I would advise even against that because I somehow doubt you will be able to stop yourself from falling head over heals for this girl.
 
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