I don't usually write field reports as I'm not into sarging and approaches. This is more like a day in the life of Jariel...
It was my first day back at university yesterday and since I have started a new course I have no friends there at the moment. However, on my way to class I happened to run into a girl (HB9) I dated some months ago (I nexted her for being an attention wh0re). I found out she was in my lecture so we sat together. There were no hard feelings, although she did ask why I hadn't been in contact with her (I told her I'd been distracted). I was also emphasising that she was in my friendzone by calling her "mate" and talking about how I was planning to hit on the hot lecturer and asking if I should go for it. It seemed to get under her skin a little and she was very flirty with me and touching me a lot.
Later in the class I was approached by a girl (HB8) who recognised me from a one off conversation over a year ago. She didn't even know my name (or pretended not to know), but I invited her to sit with us and was asking general questions about what she'd been upto, how she was finding uni etc. She complimented me by saying I'm looking very well and touched my knee a few times. Meanwhile, the HB9 kept trying to talk to me and I was turning back and forth between them. It got to the stage where they were literally competing for my attention. Anyway, after class I told them I had to rush off, but before I left I decided to get the HB8's number:
Me: "what day's do you come into uni? Maybe we could catch up later in the week."
Her: "Tuesdays and Fridays. Are you in then?"
Me: "I should be around Friday if you want to meet up. If you give me your number I'll text you if I'm around".
She gave me her number very eagerly and asked for mine in return (definitely legit number as I called it so she could store my number).
So now I leave the class and the HB9 decides she wants to hang around with me, but not after nagging at me for getting the HB8s number and accusing me of being a player. I went for a coffee with her in the canteen and we got on really well in fairness. I have nothing against this girl and she is so hot, but there were too many mind games between us last time we got involved and they never amounted to anything worthwhile.
Ok, so I tell this girl I need to go and see my lecturer (the hot one) to sort out some things. Before leaving she asked if I still have her number and asked if I was free to meet again Thursday. She gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek and left.
So now I decide to go and see my hot lecturer. I've picked up interest signals from her before and she seemed very keen when I went to speak to her. She did lots of hair flicking, strong eye contact and she offered to help me with some notes:
Her: "I shouldn't really do this, but I can make an exception".
Me: "You always were my favourite lecturer, but don't tell the others".
She actually giggled at this!
Anyway, she has offered to help out with a project I'm doing, gave me her email address and told me to drop in next week for the notes. Got nothing final here, but it was a positive encounter and I'm confident I would stand a chance if I went for it. I have to admit, seeing an older lecturer does have a certain short-term appeal. (Any tips for pursuing lecturers or alike would be welcome. Thanks!)
Ok, so I'm at a loss now so I decide to call up a girl (HB8) I've been spending time with and ask her if she wants to meet up. She has a boyfriend, but she has basically told me she wants to leave him. She told me last time we met that she has met someone else who she really fancies and gets on with, and feels like she'd rather be with him. Well this week we went for lunch and she basically confirmed that this other guy is me (I knew this anyway from her friend). She has also asked me if I think she needs to leave her boyfriend. I told her it was her decision and I refuse to be responsible if it turns out to be a mistake. It's kinda weird with this girl as she often talks indirectly and drops lots of hints.
Anyway, she had to go and meet her mother, so we parted ways with a kiss (just a peck on the mouth) and a hug.
It's now 7pm and I check my phone to see my friend has left me a text message and he's in a bar with some uni friends, including a girl I recently broke up with (a girl I was seeing behind my GFs back and feel quite deeply for). This girl was very uncomfortable when I got there and even though she said hi to me, she would not even look at me. Nonetheless, I went to get a drink and the barmaid asked why I'm drinking diet coke when I'm in such good shape. I admit I fumbled with my words and couldn't think of a good reply. I just told her I prefer the taste and we ended up talking about the taste difference (really poor I know), but she returned my change to me and ran her hand up my arm.
Anyway, I went and joined the group. I didn't know whether to talk to the girl I'd been involved with or let her sulk on her own. I went with the latter and started speaking to another girl, only to have her hit on me too. She was drunk so it would account for her being so forward, but after talking for a while she decided to sit on my lap. At one point she asked if I was coming back to her place and asked for my number. I wasn't interested in this girl, she was drunk and only after a ONS I reckon, so I excused myself from going back with her, but I did give her my real number (don't ask why, I just didn't want to refuse). I excused myself to go to the bar.
Now the barmaid who had complimented me before served me again and seemed keen to have a conversation, despite ignoring her customers. She was hot and her interest in me seemed beyond that of a friendly/flirty barmaid. She was asking questions about what I'd been doing, asked if I was there with my girlfriend (I replied that I don't have a girlfriend). I could have asked for this girls number and I'm sure I'd have got it, but girls who are this forward often turn out to be slvts in my experience, so I didn't pursue her.
And that was my day. I got a text message from the girl i met for lunch referring to a private joke earlier in the day and I got a text message from the HB9 asking if I use MSN.
I suppose I came over as a bit of a player, but I felt really confident and I think that must have stood out to women. I also picked up loads of glances and eye contact with women throughout the day, so all in all it was a decent day for prospects considering I was not sarging.
Anyway, just thought I'd share that since a lot of guys here are calling out for more field reports.
It was my first day back at university yesterday and since I have started a new course I have no friends there at the moment. However, on my way to class I happened to run into a girl (HB9) I dated some months ago (I nexted her for being an attention wh0re). I found out she was in my lecture so we sat together. There were no hard feelings, although she did ask why I hadn't been in contact with her (I told her I'd been distracted). I was also emphasising that she was in my friendzone by calling her "mate" and talking about how I was planning to hit on the hot lecturer and asking if I should go for it. It seemed to get under her skin a little and she was very flirty with me and touching me a lot.
Later in the class I was approached by a girl (HB8) who recognised me from a one off conversation over a year ago. She didn't even know my name (or pretended not to know), but I invited her to sit with us and was asking general questions about what she'd been upto, how she was finding uni etc. She complimented me by saying I'm looking very well and touched my knee a few times. Meanwhile, the HB9 kept trying to talk to me and I was turning back and forth between them. It got to the stage where they were literally competing for my attention. Anyway, after class I told them I had to rush off, but before I left I decided to get the HB8's number:
Me: "what day's do you come into uni? Maybe we could catch up later in the week."
Her: "Tuesdays and Fridays. Are you in then?"
Me: "I should be around Friday if you want to meet up. If you give me your number I'll text you if I'm around".
She gave me her number very eagerly and asked for mine in return (definitely legit number as I called it so she could store my number).
So now I leave the class and the HB9 decides she wants to hang around with me, but not after nagging at me for getting the HB8s number and accusing me of being a player. I went for a coffee with her in the canteen and we got on really well in fairness. I have nothing against this girl and she is so hot, but there were too many mind games between us last time we got involved and they never amounted to anything worthwhile.
Ok, so I tell this girl I need to go and see my lecturer (the hot one) to sort out some things. Before leaving she asked if I still have her number and asked if I was free to meet again Thursday. She gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek and left.
So now I decide to go and see my hot lecturer. I've picked up interest signals from her before and she seemed very keen when I went to speak to her. She did lots of hair flicking, strong eye contact and she offered to help me with some notes:
Her: "I shouldn't really do this, but I can make an exception".
Me: "You always were my favourite lecturer, but don't tell the others".
She actually giggled at this!
Anyway, she has offered to help out with a project I'm doing, gave me her email address and told me to drop in next week for the notes. Got nothing final here, but it was a positive encounter and I'm confident I would stand a chance if I went for it. I have to admit, seeing an older lecturer does have a certain short-term appeal. (Any tips for pursuing lecturers or alike would be welcome. Thanks!)
Ok, so I'm at a loss now so I decide to call up a girl (HB8) I've been spending time with and ask her if she wants to meet up. She has a boyfriend, but she has basically told me she wants to leave him. She told me last time we met that she has met someone else who she really fancies and gets on with, and feels like she'd rather be with him. Well this week we went for lunch and she basically confirmed that this other guy is me (I knew this anyway from her friend). She has also asked me if I think she needs to leave her boyfriend. I told her it was her decision and I refuse to be responsible if it turns out to be a mistake. It's kinda weird with this girl as she often talks indirectly and drops lots of hints.
Anyway, she had to go and meet her mother, so we parted ways with a kiss (just a peck on the mouth) and a hug.
It's now 7pm and I check my phone to see my friend has left me a text message and he's in a bar with some uni friends, including a girl I recently broke up with (a girl I was seeing behind my GFs back and feel quite deeply for). This girl was very uncomfortable when I got there and even though she said hi to me, she would not even look at me. Nonetheless, I went to get a drink and the barmaid asked why I'm drinking diet coke when I'm in such good shape. I admit I fumbled with my words and couldn't think of a good reply. I just told her I prefer the taste and we ended up talking about the taste difference (really poor I know), but she returned my change to me and ran her hand up my arm.
Anyway, I went and joined the group. I didn't know whether to talk to the girl I'd been involved with or let her sulk on her own. I went with the latter and started speaking to another girl, only to have her hit on me too. She was drunk so it would account for her being so forward, but after talking for a while she decided to sit on my lap. At one point she asked if I was coming back to her place and asked for my number. I wasn't interested in this girl, she was drunk and only after a ONS I reckon, so I excused myself from going back with her, but I did give her my real number (don't ask why, I just didn't want to refuse). I excused myself to go to the bar.
Now the barmaid who had complimented me before served me again and seemed keen to have a conversation, despite ignoring her customers. She was hot and her interest in me seemed beyond that of a friendly/flirty barmaid. She was asking questions about what I'd been doing, asked if I was there with my girlfriend (I replied that I don't have a girlfriend). I could have asked for this girls number and I'm sure I'd have got it, but girls who are this forward often turn out to be slvts in my experience, so I didn't pursue her.
And that was my day. I got a text message from the girl i met for lunch referring to a private joke earlier in the day and I got a text message from the HB9 asking if I use MSN.
I suppose I came over as a bit of a player, but I felt really confident and I think that must have stood out to women. I also picked up loads of glances and eye contact with women throughout the day, so all in all it was a decent day for prospects considering I was not sarging.
Anyway, just thought I'd share that since a lot of guys here are calling out for more field reports.
