"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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help! should i risk a dirty girl?

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hey guys, this might sound stupid and im probably gunna get flammed for this but...........i was online chatting to this girl (hb6-7 by the way) and she comes out with "u wanna shag" at first i was gobsmacked but i still played it cool, i didnt say yes and i didnt say no the convo went like this

Me: hi
Her: hey
Me: howz u?
Her :fine thanks u?
Blah blah blah blah (chit chat)
Me:i like your pic makes you look innocent
her: iam innocent. lol
me: no your not. lol
her: u wanna shag?
Me: u offerin?
her: yeah
me: i thought you were a nice girl? lol
her I am, nice girls can be forward too lol
me: true, socks on or off?
Her: off, lol
Me: lights on or off?
Her: on
Me: spit or swallow?
her: swallow
me: in a bath or in a shower?
her: shower
her: and bath of choc
me: what type of choc?
her: galaxy
me: you really are a nice girl not dirty at all lol
her: i know

she gave me her number and wants to meet up, but im not too sure, my worry is that if a girl is this forward is she likely to be full of STD's cos of constant shagging or is she just confident? i mean who knows how many guys she's been with, if so, i dont really wanna get involved it would be like sticking your **** in a bucket of filth (i dont want my nob to fall off) but she's a nurse so i would of thought she's pretty clean. anyway just wanna know what most of you guys would seriously do, should i leave it or risk catching somthing?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LoL, Thats TOO straight foward.. I mean,... Its possible for a girl to be this foward without being dirty but..... i dont kno bro.. its your call... You dont want to get with that.. and you come out of there with some sh!t. Caution...
 
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If you meet her, keep your d!ick in your pants for a while. Watch her body language. Try and find out about her history a little. If you decide to go through with having sex, wear a condom. Basically, be sensible. If you are really that worried about catching something, abstain. If not, wear a condom and do it right. Condoms (Latex) really do work VERY WELL in your favor if you use them right.

Having sex with protection is taking a chance just like anything else in life. Wearing a seatbelt in a car during an accident STILL does not guarantee you will walk away without injuries or even your life. However, it greatly decreases your chances of that happening. Get what I mean?
 
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Some of you give $hitty advice! Why jeopardize your health for some sl%t? Sex lasts a short time, but an STD can last a lifetime!

You already know the answer--listen to your gut, it's trying to tell you something; otherwise you wouldn't be so paranoid!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Are you sure this isn't really a 12 year old boy. Anyone that sounds like that seems like they're either a little kid messing around or mentally unstable.

Just my 2
 
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I dated a dancer once. She was forward, probably the most forward girl I've ever known, and the best kisser I've ever encountered. Sex was great! She was hot, and knew how to please me, no problem. When she was horny, there was no stopping her (like I would...LOL)...
But after our relationship was over (saw her for about a year), it began to sink in how big of a mistake this could have been. Even back then I realized she did not get this good in bed by accident. If she was like this to me, and it only stood to reason that she would have been the same towards others as well. I was blinded by lust, no doubt. If I had to do it all over, she would have been in my "hit it & split" category, with condom carefully in place.

Now this was a girl I knew for a while first. I had an inkling of her family life, but didn't know she was a dancer until later. So as someone else mentioned, take some time to get to know her to the point where you can decide if it's worth it. If she's that forward, then she shouldn't have any problems swallowing in the shower first.......schlong her later..
 
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Have you read "The 48 Laws of Power"...?

Despise the free lunch.

Hos are hos anyway.
 
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Originally posted by tristan22
Some of you give $hitty advice! Why jeopardize your health for some sl%t? Sex lasts a short time, but an STD can last a lifetime!

You already know the answer--listen to your gut, it's trying to tell you something; otherwise you wouldn't be so paranoid!
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My advice does not steer this poster (fake or not) nor anyone else who reads it in the wrong direction. What do you think condoms are for? To protect you against unwanted pregnancies and STD's (latex anyway). Is it as much of a guarantee as it is abstaining from sex all together? No. Do it right though and it comes pretty damn close.
 
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By the way, if the girl is a nurse, you'd think she would be quite familiar with reckless sexual behavior.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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