"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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In2theGame

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Ive seen and talked to this girl for about a month and a half now.. shes always flirted and smiled alot at me, So today at lunch i walk in the store where she works and the convo went like this

Me: Hi, How are you..

her: Im doing good...

Me: hows school goin?

Her: Good... I have time off from school... how Have you been?

Me: ive been alright.. *smile*

Her: Your working?

Me: Yeah im on my Lunch Break..

Her: ohh... you havent come into the store much lately... *smile*

Me: ive Been low on money, I spend alot during the weekends..

Her: Oh.. You go out... With who you go with?

Me: ......why? *smile*

Her: Who you go with? With who?

Her:... Your girlfriend?

Me: *smile* I dont have a girlfriend...

Her: *kind of rolls her eyes*..... Yea Right.

I was thinking......She went back to doing what she was at work... What do you guys See this as?? what is this chick doin..
BTW, this girl has a boyfriend... What step should i take? Foward or Back Step?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Well the whole "This girl has a boyfriend" comment changed everything I was going to tell you.

I was going to tell you that when she said: "Who do you go out with?" That you should have said, "Friday I am going out with you." or something to that effect, but since you added that bombshell ending, I am going to tell you to stay clear of girls who are unavailable. If they can cheat on their boyfriend they can cheat on you.
 

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Yeah i see what your saying. Why is she so concerned with who i went out with or curious if i went out with a girlfriend, plus assuming i have one... whats the reason behind it.. I wouldnt mind goin somewhere with this chick.. shes hot.. But i wonder if i should move this foward or just back off...
 

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Originally posted by In2theGame
Yeah i see what your saying. Why is she so concerned with who i went out with or curious if i went out with a girlfriend, plus assuming i have one... whats the reason behind it.. I wouldnt mind goin somewhere with this chick.. shes hot.. But i wonder if i should move this foward or just back off...
Sounds like you are going to do what you want to do regardless of the warning signs.

If you do go forward with this, and you notice yourself falling for this girl, I'd back off ASAP if I were you because this girl is throwing up some big time red flags already. If you insist on persuing this, then make it just a fling for fun, but I would advise even against that because I somehow doubt you will be able to stop yourself from falling head over heals for this girl.
 
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