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    DJ Fantasy Football League!

    If anyone wants to play fantasy football (I know its a bit late) I want to form a league of DJs! The league will be just for fun and bragging rights around Sosuave. The live draft will be held online at 8:00 PM CDT on Monday, September 5. It is critical that you can make this date and time...
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    Speed Dating...Betaing Men

    I watched Hitch last night and did a bit of research on speed dating. I personally have never done it, but I was a bit upset to see what the event organizers do to men... 1. Women sit, while men move around...hangs an "approaching" frame on the interaction 2. At the end of the night...
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    Two Improbable Openers/Routines

    I never thought these would work either, but they are reasonably field tested (10-20 uses each) and they work shockingly well. I think they work better as a routine than an opener, but I have opened with them a few times as well. They were created from just random conversations I was having...
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    Social Conditioning, Circa 1894

    A funny article I came across: http://www.datingfun.com/sex/trivia/youngbride.asp
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    Girl Pays on Day2 - IOI?

    The girl picked up my check on a day 2...it wasn't a big check, just a couple drinks for each of us. Should I consider this a strong IOI? The rest of the time went well, she looked good and we had a good time, I think.
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    Have A Plan DJs

    I took my FB out the a couple weeks back, and during the pillowtalk a few nights later, she said "it was so sexy how you just told me where we were going and what we were doing. Most guys never take charge like that. I wanted to get on you from the moment you said that." I said to her "we...
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    Overgaming Problems

    Yeesh, so in my tender field experience, I have come across an odd sticking point. Several times already in the field, I have had problems with overgaming/overqualifying. I was always worried about not DHV and supplication, and I have developed a nasty habit of girls saying the following types...
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    Balance Between C&F and Straight Talk

    What is the best way for me to maintain a C&F frame while also presenting myself as a reasonably successful young man? I want to present C&F but I also do have a lot of the "traditional" attractive traits going for me such as a good job, education, a nice place, a nice car, good salary, and so...
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    Approach Mathematics

    Food for thought for today: Outside of the clubs/bars on Friday and Saturday nights, legitmate approaches, even on hot women, are actually really rare. I am not talking about a couple small talk lines, or staring at them, or honking your horn at them, but an actual, open, build, close...
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    Help With Match.com

    I just signed up for this site and I am getting some decent response to my ad, but I have one problem. Where is the IM client? People talk all about Match.com Messenger, all other dating sites have one, yet I can't find it to save my life. Their customer service never returned my email...
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    Quick Tip From Some Women

    I was having a conversation with some women tonight, one who is a FB, and we were talking about guys approaching and how they said 75% of the guys who approach are absolutely no good. Knowing that this probably isn't the case, I posed the question "How can you tell if a guy is someone you won't...
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    Sarging for Tall Chicks

    Does anyone know good places to pick up tall chicks? I pretty much go for girls between 5'10" and 6'2" exclusively, and while its certainly not impossible to find them, it can be a tough sarge at times to find ones who are legitimately this tall and are still thin and cute (and are not 5'5"...
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    Weeding out Women on BC

    I am (supposedly) 10 days deep into BC. However, the very first approach I made coming out of the box after a 3 1/2 year relationship and on the first day of BC led to sleeping with a girl and now she is getting very "girlfriendish" with me after a week. She just sucked out both of my weekend...
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    Starting a Bootcamp

    Last week, I ended a relationship of three and a half years that I achieved largely through advice from this site. It was a good relationship, but we were just growing in different directions. After that long, its time to decide if this person is the one, and she just wasn't. I still...
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