"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Balance Between C&F and Straight Talk

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What is the best way for me to maintain a C&F frame while also presenting myself as a reasonably successful young man? I want to present C&F but I also do have a lot of the "traditional" attractive traits going for me such as a good job, education, a nice place, a nice car, good salary, and so forth.

A lot of women, especially the young, educated professional types that I shoot for, do look for this sort of stuff (education, decent job, intellect, etc.), at least on some level, and I don't want to come across as a complete clown to them, but I don't want to be a boring schmo either. I've read articles and field reports where more professional and educated women blew guys out in set because of too much C&F for this reason. My most recent LTR wouldn't have likely given me or any other pure C&F guy the time of day, to give one example of this type. Then again, I know these women also blow out boring braggarts too.

Whats the best way to balance and still stay congruent? Would something like this fly well?

HBrandom: "What do you do?"
Hero: "Well, I am a (blank) by day... but my real passion is my stunt work. Have you ever seen it in a movie when a hot actor has to reveal his naked ass? That's my night job."

Would this earn points for both C&F and having a real career, in this case?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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See, great part of the c&f is making up your own stuff not just following Dave's material to the t. The one i made up for your case is this one, I think its better too.
her: so wut do u do/ wuts your dream?
me: I'm a proffesional wrestler/ would like to be a professional wrestler.
of course this isnt that funny when you actually look like a prof. wrestler
 

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Originally posted by HereToImprove
HBrandom: "What do you do?"
Hero: "Well, I am a (blank) by day... but my real passion is my stunt work. Have you ever seen it in a movie when a hot actor has to reveal his naked ass? That's my night job."


Would this earn points for both C&F and having a real career, in this case?
Not all chicks have a sense of humor. and even less - a goofy sense of humor.
What do you do - goes when you still dont know each other, and an imagine of "hot actor's ass - my night job" is not going to win.

Modify it:

"Have you ever seen it in a movie when a hot actor has to kiss a hot actress? That's my night job."
 
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