"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I took my FB out the a couple weeks back, and during the pillowtalk a few nights later, she said "it was so sexy how you just told me where we were going and what we were doing. Most guys never take charge like that. I wanted to get on you from the moment you said that."

I said to her "we are going to XXXX at XXXX. I will pick you up at XXXX. Dress nice." Now, she gave me **** when I actually said this to her that day, saying "Oh really, what makes you think I would like that?" I didn't back down from the **** test, and said, "Well, you will, and that is what I am doing tonight, and we are going to have a good time."

I learned a lesson about the power of assertiveness on women. Take heed, DJs.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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That is one of the best convo's i've ever read. Doling out the roles, laying down the law, is so much fun. Second you say it she'll give you that look of surprise or excitement, and try to give you shyt for it, but you know shes trying to overpower you, lol. love that stuff. awesome, man.
 
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