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Here's a tip. Wait 1 week. Re-read your post. Ask yourself if it makes any sense. Get back to me then. Fortunately you already recognize that you have oneitis. You also mention some positive qualities about yourself. This is a good start. I wouldn't go out of my way to make a fool of myself...

Solarium, just wanted to add my 2 cents The main thing I love about this site is how you can find textbook examples of relationships at all points. I have this site to thank for helping me through quite a few tough spots. Reading exactly what is happening to me makes it seem much less severe...

Actually lack of sleep does put your body under stress. The problem is that it is not the kind of stress you want. Lack of sleep will lower your body's ability to produce testosterone, kill your energy levels, cause your body to store fat where your body's testosterone to estrogen conversion...

Best way to tell how she feels is to ask her out on a second date. As your date for a dance she was sort of obligated to dance close to you, etc. That being said, she didn't have to go with you in the first place. So a certain amount of interest has been proven. The questions are how much, and...

Just tread lightly. I was unaware that it was your schedule that took up a majority of your day, but try to act soon. Even if it is for work, waiting too long can cause her to lose interest. Most importantly dont put her on a pedistal. Just because you think she is good and you have not had any...

Flowers bad. Contact good. Force a date. Maybe even an afternoon coffee date. The weather is turning nice, ask her to play some tennis or mini golf with you. If she can't give you an hour, she isn't going go give you much more.

At least get them checked out. You could have had them broken. If not properly treated this could lead to infection, or your teeth could literally start to die. I can't see the damage, but if it was enough to leave something shifted, then chances are something serious happened. Your window of...

Allegra is my personal favorite. I would recommend seeing an actual doctor to ensure that it is seasonal allergies, and not a sinus infection or some other ailment. Obviously you need to go to the doctor to get the perscription for a majority of allergy medications anyway. So that shouldn't be a...

Acting anything will lead to nothing but disappointment later. If you want to dress Emo, and feel comfortable/more confident, then go for it. If you are doing it for any other reason, then it is WRONG. If you dress emo now, and start trying to force yourself into a group of emo people or...

Problem one is that you are being affected by it. I dont know what you are doing when you are around her, but something is making her uneasy, which is making you uneasy, which is going to spiral out of control. Take a half step back, compose yourself, and go on. Things may be a bit uneasy...

The difference between you and a jerk is that the jerk doesn't care. The jerk has confidence, because he doesn't put anythign on the line. He is confident and sure of himself. That being said, he is also a jerk. They get women, but eventually she will realize that the jerk is an empty shell...

Think outside the box. And by that I mean think outside the school. There are plenty of places to pick up girls. Despite the fact that there are numerous posts about this topic, I will indulge you. 1.Do some hobby outside school. A sport, club, something not affiliated with your particular...

Some girls are just slap-happy or abusive. I know from personal experience. It pains me to say so but my ex used to slap me constantly. At that time, I did not stand up formyself and tell her to stop, fearing she would leave me (BAD AFC days!!!)I would say something to provoke it, but that does...

Ugh. It seems you are approaching this incorrectly. I have noticed that this site tends to cater to the serial hookup style rather than the long term thing, so it is understandable that you would get confused. Let me offer my sage advice. Don't worry about the girlfriend. Period. Judging...

Few things to keep in mind while approaching her. 1. Do It in person 2. If you have a crush on her, you are not thinking clearly. Get your DJ cap on before you try anything. Otherwise you will come across as insecure, not confident, and all the other AFC adjectives. 3. Girls rarely call...

Much like the Christian Bible, the stories are meant to convey general principles to live by, not be taken literally. The DJ bible promotes confidence, independence, and suggests ways to manipulate human nature to your advantage. It is never too early to start. Just be sure you apply them...

Well Johnny, looks like you are already on your way to success. Your tone and words seem to reflect a genuine realization. I have a feeling you will laugh as you realize how, upon reading thsis thread and all of its replies, a switch was flipped in your mind. Once again, I think that your...

I try to avoid bringing up the sexual past. As long as she is clean, its not a problem. Use a condom though. If there are any questions, you can go to a doctors office or clinic and get tested for STD's. Pretty akward at first, but really makes the sex more enjoyable. No worries! By not...

Ok dude. It is over. If you get her back, she will make your life miserable. You might be thinking that we dont know what we're talking about. and you're probably telling everyone who will listen your story, like a broken record. I had a similar problem when i started college. My highschool...

Depends how old she is. If she is 18-20 or younger, then i would say you can get away with an email. Older than that, I think they are less open to the email dating thing. Im a fan of the phone or face to face. It shows more confidence, and allows you to vibe with her more intimately.