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    Friend just broke up with her BF

    I think I'd gone a bit beta and was seeking her attention/company too much this week. I got the sense she started to tune me out yesterday. So today (after reading some advice on old threads here), I have avoided starting up conversations with her...and then when she's messaged me, I've been...
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    Friend just broke up with her BF

    Yeah, she dumped him. I think it was a long time coming.
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    Friend just broke up with her BF

    This female friend of mine, whom I've known for about a year, told me today she broke up with her boyfriend of 2 years. Admittedly, I developed a crush on her when I first met her...found out she had a boyfriend and since then have been seeing other women while remaining friends with her (we...
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    Female friend called me creepy

    Yeah dude, I know I need serious work. I still have a lot of issues with women and with things in general. When I joined this site 10 years ago I didn't even know how to talk to a girl PERIOD. It's not like I haven't made progress. Thanks for all the responses guys. For the record, I know now...
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    Female friend called me creepy

    There's a female coworker of mine... Brief background: I've been good friends with for 6 months but also told her a few months ago I could see us becoming more than friends...I was basically rebuked since she hasn't broken up with her bf. So she knows I was interested at one point, but we've...
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    Turned down a group hangout...right move?

    SomeGirls -- Thanks, I will definitely need to do that. Who Dares Win -- Yeah, that was my thought exactly. I feel more confident that I made the right call, but I'm still left with a bad taste of how I had to lie and turn her down to do it. The process could have been more graceful...
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    Turned down a group hangout...right move?

    But were her friends mostly girls? Had I gone, this would have been a group of 6 guys and 2-3 girls. Moreover, I don't know these guys particularly well. To top it off, they were meeting at one of the guy's houses. I feel like all of that would have made it extremely hard for me to be alpha, let...
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    Turned down a group hangout...right move?

    One of my female coworkers (a girl I'm interested in) organized a group hangout tonight for several of us coworkers. The group consists of 5 other guys and just 2-3 girls (including her). I decided to turn it down at the last minute...said I already drank too much and couldn't make it...because...
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    Coworker with BF

    Thanks for the feedback guys. Just to clarify, we're both in the lowest level position of the company, and I'm not letting it get in the way of my work. I understand the concern but I don't see that being an issue at the moment. Perhaps that's because so far it's just innocent playing...
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    Coworker with BF

    I've got it bad for a coworker. She is extremely friendly/flirty, we've already gone out outside work twice (I planned them but it was her idea to do so in the first place), she wants to hang out more, and...she has a BF. She's only mentioned him a few times, and I haven't asked about him, so I...
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    My tutor...how to make it happen?

    Yeah that is what I plan to do. I'm just anxious to take it further, but since I'm drawing blanks on how to specifically progress, I may just let what happens happen. It may also be easier for me to establish a truer relationship once tutoring ends, the school year starts, and we're both living...
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    My tutor...how to make it happen?

    Ok, we had lunch together today. It went well; nothing truly magical happened, but we both had a good time and enjoyed each other's company. I'm pretty certain she is interested in me, although she can be shy...it seems like she doesn't have much experience in dating. I feel dumb for asking...
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    My tutor...how to make it happen?

    We're both 19. We occassionally communicate about non-school-related topics on facebook (not often though)...and sometimes stay in the classroom just to talk, even after our scheduled session ended. Last week we stayed and talked about random things for an hour. And we laugh/joke around a lot...
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    My tutor...how to make it happen?

    Here's the context of my situation: I am a rising college sophomore, currently taking summer school courses. I have had a math tutor for the past 2 weeks (same age/college year) to help me in my studies. We get along well, and she seems to like being around me. She will be my tutor for...
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    Flirt in Class...Next Step?

    There's a girl I like at my school who is a grade below me. We have one class together and we're in the same work group so we flirt with each other quite a bit. I occassionally run into her in the halls but otherwise in class is the only time I talk with her. Since I've come to the conclusion...
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    My Plan (need help in parts)

    Thanks for the comments guys. So you suggest 3 protein shakes a day? If that is the case, is it better to have a protein shake before or after a workout? Also I have never had canned tuna or fish oil. They don't look appetizing to me but I guess I will try them. I'm hoping to use the...
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    My Plan (need help in parts)

    5'8 115 lbs. That is how big I am right now, as a high school senior. It goes without explaining my motive for implementing a plan to gain weight in muscle (especially with college later this year). I am ready to embark on the slow but sure journey of physical improvement. :) Below are...
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    Air Force ROTC

    Thanks for the information. I'm going to talk with a representive in a few days to find more about the specific program at my school. The job I want is weather officer. Most of them are stationed in bases across the world, but not in combat, which is personally ideal (of course, if they need...
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    Air Force ROTC

    Hey all, I am going to be a college freshmen next fall and am considering joining the AF ROTC. I was wondering if anyone on here is or was in the program and could shed some insight on the life of a cadet. FWIW, some of my main concerns include: -Amount of time it takes (with ROTC plus...
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    Just how important is breath when kissing

    No I'm quite smart, thank you...but with women YES I'm still a noob, that's why I lurk here to try to get better (and I have...C&F which I once lacked is now my main tactic and got me this chic)...just need to get better with the physical stuff because I've never had an intimate relationship...
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