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its at the very bottom of the the page in the center if u cant find it.... http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

I think its important to read it. Or atleast some of the beginning stuff like "be a man" "kill the desperation" "fifteen lessons" "weapons of mass seduction" etc. All those posts have helped me a great amount. Personally anyway. They are more about where your mind should be focused on and...

Just gotta do it man. Like you said, just try an have fun in every situation. Theres no quick fix for gettin over the fear. The more you do it, the easier it gets.

Thanks guys. Actually one of my buddies invited me to go, and he seems to think that he can hook me up with somebody, but I'm not exactly sure how thats gonna happen, mostly becuase of the popularity thing. I guess I'll go and just try to hang out with him, but knowing him, he might leave me...

So I have the option of going to this party a little later tonight. The problem I have with it is that I know theres gonna be a lot of drinking and drugs and stuff like that, and I also know that there are gonna be alot of hot girls from my school there. Basically its gonna be every popular...

This is especially true for guys like me who are gonna be graduating. Gotta do it now or never. Hah, after reading this thread I got all psyched and now I'm ready to insane at school for the next couple weeks, I graduate in the middle of june. LETS FVCKING GO...

pink floyd import(civic/integra) or domestic(camaro/mustang)

Hmm. Thats cool, I'm not really left with a lot of options here. It just seems weird to me knowing that theres this pretty good looking girl that realy likes me and I feel nothing. Just feels kinda odd. I asked a couple friends and they all seem to think I should go out with her. I guess I...

I understand what you mean. The only problem I see with it is where you said this: Im really a shy guy unless Im with my friends or people Im comfertable with. Once I open up, im pretty crazy. I dont really date much at all nor do I get a lot of attention from girls becuase I'm shy (i kno...

Sure. Ill elaborate. Basically I was considering going out with this girl. So last friday night I went to a movie with her and my little group of friends. We (her ,me, and my friends) went to get pizza. Nothing special. It kinda worked out becuase she works there along with 2 of my friends...

I dont know what is going on with me. I dont even know very well how to explain the problem but I'll do my best. Basically if I see a girl I find attractive and would possibly like to go out with I do my best and persue her, but not overly. In some cases they end up liking me and wanting to date...

I've been thinking lately and I started wondering about something. I know that in the world of guys, a bad looking guy and a good looking guy both see a hot girl and think the same thing, that she is attractive, but is in different in the girls world? For example, if a large number of bad...

i cant do it anymore. i know its wrong to quit but i dont care. ive been reading this site for a while now, and even though i have learned a few things and my "skills" if thats what you wanna call them are better, but stuff just isnt working out for me right now. i guess my problem is this. i...

ok so after rereading my post i realize that i sounded kinda like an ass. i didnt mean that im gonna ignore her completley and make her start the conversations, what i think i meant to say was that im gonna play hard to get, that kind of thing. oops. and yea, i do realize that ignoring the...

Hmm.. where to start I suppose I should say this first, and I know that its been said before but I feel like saying it again. Never get too anxious at all costs. This is a lesson that I'm somewhat learning right now. This goes especially for the guys who either havn't had many girlfriends or...

so i was flirting with this girl at my work tonight, and i think everything is going good, so then she says shes gonna go cuz her mom needs to pick her up, so were walking outside and i ask her for her phone number, i say "hey, you should give me your phone number so we can hang out...

1993 chevy camaro m5 with t-tops, all i know is ive gotten looks from jus about every girl in my school when its sunny and the tops are off :-) good times

It seems like in the past, I have liked girls that are "above my level" or so it seems to me. I have liked the popular girls in my H.S. like most of the guys, but at the same time there have been a lot of girls that like me. The problem with that is these girls that like me are girls that I...

well then why is it that you see/hear people getting made fun of becuase they get a bonor? it jus seems to me, and maybe im alone on this, that i hear people getting laughed at for it, either bcuz they got it to easily or because of other wierd reasons.

ive got a really wierd question, me and my friend were talking about this and we couldn't really agree. the thing we couldnt agree on was when are the most common times to get a bonor. ive read threads about dancing(grinding) and sh!t like that but i was jus wanted other persons point of view...