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Amen brother. Thank you.

https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/wife-left-me-need-advice.256772/ UPDATE: I got my divorce finalized at the end of 2019. I was absolutely heartbroken and depressed. But I worked out every single day during 2019... I got very ripped and started taking better care of myself. I stopped...

Thanks That's hilarious. I literally used that analogy the other day when a friend told me "you need to just keep your mind busy, you'll be fine..." It's easy for people to say that when they aren't in the trenches. Hell, I probably would have said the same damn thing, but once you're in it...

I was with her for 4 1/2 years. I've been doing a lot of self-reflection after the break up (her choice, not mine). I find the mornings being the hardest time of the day for some reason. I haven't been getting adequate sleep, nightmares keep waking me up. I'm currently unemployed because I have...

I went on a solid amount of dates but either they didn't interest me or I didn't interest them... Hooked up with this one gal and it was the most meaningless pound of my life. It made me feel more empty. To make matters worse as this depression set in my sex drive plummeted. I honestly didn't...

Fellas, Holy hell has this been a helluva ride... I need some advice from ya'll. How effin' long does this depression usually last for? I know that's a vague question, especially with zero context, but to sum in up in sentence or two, wife left, I was numb the first 3 weeks or so, thought I'd...

Great advice. Thanks.

So update. She got back to me. Was "busy" with her new job. She suggested we meet up for dinner again but fvck that. I'm going to let this one sit on ice for a bit and continue playing the field. Craziest thing. So I had another girl who I went on a date with, just drinks, I wasn't super into...

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOL Dude... do you really say that? "Yeah it's possible." Damn son. That is hilarious. I will try and let you know what happens.

So next time be vague? Leave them with uncertainty? That feels so counter-intuitive but I'll give it a try. I mean I think you're probably right. The girls I wasn't very interested in and never texted back have all been very responsive and some actually texted me after some time. We'll see. But...

Guys, I need your advice. I've been ghosted twice now. WTF am I doing wrong? Both occasions, the dates went extremely well. By the end of the date, we were holding hands, walking, chatting, they stop talking, eyes met, we kiss. Typical dating BS. I tell them both I'd like to see them again...

Personally, I believe the reason she got attached so fast is because the lack of stability in her personal life. She lost both her parents and has a child which is a huge responsibility. A responsibility that you will most definetly inherit along with all the expenses that comes along with...

So she didn't flake. Got there on time. Was very nice and we hooked up but now I'm the one who is having second thoughts. She smokes. Gross.

I told her let's meet at 5 at this restaurant. She agreed. We'll see if that 100% flake rate holds water... From past experience sometimes being a little persistent but not completely needy isn't necessarily a bad thing. If she flakes, you guys can rub it in my face. lol We'll see what...

Update: I said fvck it and committed the cardinal sin of hitting her up after a no respond... She actually got back to me saying she just got really busy since she is moving... Set a time / date this go around, I didn't ask, I was more direct... We'll see if there's any follow through.

Thanks for all of the useful information. You guys are absolutely right. I have four other girls whom I've ignored because I'm just not very interested and those 4 have been hitting me up non-stop... One I've actually slept with after not talking to her for over two weeks... Shot her a text...

I did. I asked her what her schedule is like and no response. I could very well be reading into it too much. But I'm not used to texting people and having to wait hours for a simple reply.

Me: " Hi *****, it was very nice briefly meeting you. I'd love to take you out to dinner one of these nights." Her: "Sorry I'm just getting back to you I just got home and sat down lol I've been out all day! But yeah I would love to grab dinner!"

Hello friends, So now I am thrown back into the dating pool after a 4 year relationship that went south I'm now trying to get re acclimated to the whole texting protocol and I want to get some of your input on the world of texting gals nowadays. This past week I've locked in around 4 dates...