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"I’m 27 years old and my husband is 37 years old. We have a 1 year old. I’m 5’2 I was 130 pounds before pregnancy and I’m currently sitting at 160 pounds My husband told me that he almost cheated on me when he was out one weekend for a work trip. A girl also in her 20s was showing interest in...

Interesting analysis, but in an ironic way, kind of invalidates the passport bro movement implicitly as a very much transactional experience that preys on naive noobies.

I think there is no more pernicious force in the world, in gender relations, in the corruption of female behavior than instagram. TikTok and Snapchat can be lumped into this category I suppose as well, but on a smaller scale. No other instrument has so wholly captured the attention and thought...

I'm 31, not 33. What I would like to find: An HB7 or 8 girl that is white. Ironically if I was ok with asians a lot of this list would be satisfied, but I prefer white girls. 5'7" or taller. I do not want to date anything higher than an 8 for a long term relationship, I don't believe they are...

So, I posted a while back how I thought the quality of women for long term relationships was higher abroad than in the US. I had certain reasons why I believed this, perhaps less toxic feminist influence being one, less obesity, etc. I gave it a good attempt of going to a European country where...

I have had a string of 5 bad first dates so far and I'm suspecting the problem is with me, and I would like some advice as to what to do. Basically, I have tried to maximize my looks as much as possible, improve my style, fitness, my finances are in order, and I have had some success in getting...

There is a lot of dialogue propagated out there that guys should use their twenties to accumulate resources, develop their careers, date around, basically postpone looking for a serious relationship until their 30s. I want to dispel this as a dangerous and outright wrong idea if you are serious...

I recently got a text out of the blue from an HB8 that I was not expecting. She wasn't complying, being flaky, so I simply stopped responding and went no contact covertly. I think about 2 months passed, and I got the typical "hey how are you?" template text. I could have ignored this, but I...

What is the best way to fade someone who was a friend at some point but you no longer want to continue contact with them? There are some guys and girls in my extended social circle that I would like to do this with, as I am noticing they are sapping me of my energy and their values don't align...

I've posted here in the past, mostly on my situation with oneitis which now I understand more clearly. I want to explain some things and why I'll be leaving the United States soon for Eastern Europe. Simply put, I grew up in the US but came from an immigrant family, so we were poor. When you...

I've learned a lot from this website and the posters here. The articles, books, information are all invaluable, and I have applied them with positive outcomes in the end. I had some time on a longer drive yesterday to just think and let my mind wander, and I began to reflect on all this, and my...

Haven't posted here in a while, but have been seeing a lot of threads recently about the diminishing returns of online dating, and perhaps the overall dimishing returns of the dating market in general. Now, as a caveat, I am pretty average looking so I have to compensate with being as witty and...

Imagine if women were always respectful, courteous, polite. Stuck true to their word, dependable, made sure to present themselves in the best way possible to you. Would this site exist? You would simply pick the one which you liked the most, and have a great relationship with her, no playing...

Basically the title. On the one hand, if I go immediate no contact, her hamster may spin for a while wondering why I ghosted. She probably won't care considering I meant that little enough to cheat on me. This was a multi year relationship by the way. On the other hand, I feel like, from a...

It's like another chance at life. Wiping the slate clean. Some scars will remain from the pain, but remember, they were self-inflicted. Do you wonder if she thinks about you? She sends you a text message after a month, you don't even open it, instant delete. She thinks, what an *******. Or...

Just wanted to throw this out as a reminder. If you find yourself becoming captain save a ho...drop the girl and just go no contact, you'll thank me later. You'll feel good "helping" your girl or plate out, it seems to trigger some primal instinct within us. But remember. This can quickly...

So, this girl who's pretty attractive has been stringing me along for some time, being hot and cold and generally sending too many mixed signals. After helping her with some huge report that she had due soon, I got a nonchalant "Thanks!" response that ticked me off and made me suspect she was...

I just wanted to post this to find some solidarity with any BPD aftermath sufferers. No matter how hot she is, I just want to warn you guys, do NOT get involved with these women. Do NOT get sucked in. They will build up your ego only to destroy it later mercilessly. You will try not to get...

Pretty funny...she says she got his number from a friend and that there is "nothing" there. This guy is a top 100 ranked tennis player, obviously a millionaire...I find out she has been seeing him without telling me, who knows what they have been doing. Obviously I am going to go no contact...