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    Her Sexual Best

    Hi guys, we often hear in this space (and I agree with this) that it is very important for you to determine if you are her sexual best partner she ever had, as it dramatically increases the chances of a good relationship between the two. Now, my question is, how do you guys here go about...
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    Girlfriend wants to live together with me

    Hi guys. Thought I would ask your view on this, im seeing this girl for nearly 2 years and I quite enjoy her company, doesn’t give me much drama, is pretty submissive and we have good chemistry. I live alone and she lives with her parents (I’m 41 and she is 37). She has been pushing lately that...
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    Logistics of a first date

    Hi guys, let me know your opinion on this. If I´m setting up a first date with a woman that lives lets say around 30/40km from me, I always either try to setup a place somewhere in the middle, or in my city (which is the biggest city of my region). I have had instances where even the middle...
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    Question about girl getting off the pill

    Hi guys, my main plate decided to go off the pill due to the hormones messing up her general health. I have noticed that her sex drive has gone up a bit since then, is this to be expected? Not that im complaining of course, she seems to be even more into me, just wanted to better understand this...
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    Sex with african girls

    This might be a really silly question, but i am curious about your experiences about having sex with black girls and if it is any different in terms of other races. Personally I have only had sex with white and asian girls, but i am curious about black girls, is it just the same thing or are...
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    Plates vs love

    I am curious about this, I have currently 4 plates and for some time (years now) and I have feelings for all of them although not equally towards all of them, one stands out a little bit more compared to the others. However my question is, if you "love" a girl, however you define it, do you feel...
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    Plate asked me if I am seeing other women

    Completely out of the blue, a plate im seeing for around 4 months asked me if I’m dating other women. I brushed it off the first time asking her if she is planning on making a marriage proposal to me, which I thought made her drop the issue, but then a couple of hours later she came back again...
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    Plate broke it up with me

    Hi guys, I have a question for the more experienced ones here. One of my plates today came to my place and basically requested a more serious bf/gf relationship with her, to which I refused because i dont want one with anyone. She of course started crying, we hugged and kissed a bit and then she...
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    Plate on the period

    Just had a situation where I scheduled a date with a plate, where we were going for a coffee outside, dinner and after to my place to bang, but she showed up on her period and didn’t tell me before. Personally I’m not a fan of banging a chick on her period, and she didn’t tell me beforehand she...
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    Question about plate

    Hi guys, so I´m seeing this girl (I am 39, she is 35) I met from OLD roughly 2 months ago, and ever since we have been hooking up and having sex once a week on a regular basis. She always comes to my place, as she lives with her parents yet, and on the last date I suggested that perhaps she can...
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    How to proceed here

    I have a question on how to proceed in this situation with this girl. I´ve had sex twice with this one (I am 39 and she is 35) and both times she c*m. We had scheduled for next tueday dinner at my place followed by a massage. Friday she tells me that her car broke down and because of that she...
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    Talking and whispering during sex

    I would like to hear your thoughts on this subject. Usually when I have sex with a girl for first times, I always normally talk and whisper on her ear during the act, like describing what im doing, how she feels, how am I enjoying it, general dirty talk. And they really seem to love it. However...
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    Number of plates

    Hi guys, I have a question for you. Right now I am spinning 3 plates and for now it is still manageable. However I have a strong prospect coming over for dinner this week to my place, and eventually that also might become a plate. But my question is, in your opinion what is the ideal number of...
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    Sexual performance

    Hi guys, I have a quick question for you guys. I noticed that nearly everytime I have a bad night of sleep, the next day my sexual performance is significantly worse, I cant maintain an erection as hard or as long as usual, does this also happen to you on a regular basis? Thanks
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    Bi girl date

    Hi guys, just I had a tinder date this later afternoon, just a beer at a local pub. During the date, I found out the girl is bisexual, which she didnt tell me before (I also didnt ask, I guess I just wrongly assumed she was straight). Do you have any experience with bi girls? Is the drama higher...
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    Should I try to reschedule later or just drop her?

    Hi guys, So I met up with this girl from Bumble this last saturday, date went quite smooth as we actually knew each other from some 15 years ago but then lost contact, and yesterday I invited her to come over next tuesday(tomorrow) for dinner at my place. She agreed to it yesterday, but today...
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    1st date feedback

    Hi guys, wanted to get some feedback from you. I had a 1st date last night, went out for a beer with her and did my usual stuff, a little bit of comfort building, flirting, and kino. She was receptive,and after the beer we went for a short walk. At the end of the walk, and before she got in...
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    Plate gets upset after sex

    So, basically one of my plates got super upset after a hot sex session basically because I chose not to c*m, even though she did. She takes it like im not attracted to her anymore (not true), and I explained to her that I just wanted to prolong the pleasure. Personally, although I did not tell...
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    Question about next step

    So I met this girl on a meetup event last friday, and after I asked her out on monday to go out the next day. She agreed , and so we did go out. Date went OK, not great because I should have escalated more but I did touch her hands and legs, to which she didnt back off. Didnt go for the kiss...
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    Plate finds out about the Red Pill

    So, my most stable plate has just found out about the Red Pill, due to me talking a bit about it. Now, I realize this is not something that we should share with women, its just something that we should just "get it" and apply accordingly. So what is done cannot be undone, and I realize it was a...
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