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    should i say im looking for sex or for relationship?

    Tinder hoes will NEVER ask you that question in the first place. Why would they care? As long as you are s3xual they will just jump on your dck. And for more serious girls, there is no option to choose. Just tell them the facts, that you are casually dating and you'll see what happens next...
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    Can ex’s be friends? Are they just friends/friendly with each other?

    Hey Becky, what are you trying to convince yourself of? The only thing I see in your message is your complete lack of self-confidence. You've been stalking him. You're jealous. You're afraid. Where there's fear there is no love. If one day he comes out nicely you're going to feel reassurance...
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    Why are our moms doing this?!?

    First, know that most men learn that much later, around 35 or 40. So don't worry, you're not late. Your peak value is coming at 30-35. You have plenty of time and it's great that you woke up to that reality now. Mothers want to keep their sons for themselves. They want to form the incestuous...
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    Best literature for self-improvement

    I'd advise you to read biographies on great men in history, especially pre-feminist history (< 1900). That's going to give you a good idea on what a man is because we currently don't have that kind of models anymore. You can certainly read about American generals and presidents. I'd recommend...
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    How do you know if you just miss your ex or that you want her back?

    How many weeks? She never reached out before? You were saving up for a ring for what? For her? To propose? Look, you have 2 possibilities: 1. reach out, apologize 2. cut contact, move on It's normal to feel hurt after a breakup. That doesn't mean she's a different person now. If you've...
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    MGTOW = Men Sent Their Own Way, doomed to failure

    Yeah, at some point all these movements are invaded by noisy radicals. Pretty much like the neo-feminists. They become totalitarian as they can't accept anything moderate anymore. I tend to avoid them like the plague because they bring you down in their rabbit holes of preconceived ideas and...
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    My Social Distancing, At Home Workout Routine Log.

    Hey thanks for sharing man, I was looking for some home workouts routine as for now my workouts are pretty messy. Also most of the workout I find online have like 25 exercises which I can't remember.
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    What do you guys think when you see sh!t like this?

    As Luis said, most guys are not ready for this. Leave them to the guys who want them. Why do you care? If you are a 8 then have a 8 who consider herself a 8 or stay single. Don't let the frustration slip on your side, though I understand sometimes it's hard. We live in the age of the SJW, the...
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    Any crypto holders here?

    Same, no crypto. I invest super long term only, and I don't want to spend my days following markets. I prefer to buy stuff that is more tangible like stock in a good business with dividends, or real estate.
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    You're wasting your time and energy. Stop the fcking texts, quit the group, disable the notifications, put your phone away and start working on yourself. You need to grow some balls. You have no self-worth or self-esteem whatsoever. The only thing this girl is giving you is reassurance and you...
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    Health insurance is a scam for young people

    Same in Switzerland. It's not perfect but it works very well. Nobody have to take a credit to pay for a hospital bill. It's a social insurance, so you pay for others, that's easily understandable. My mom and dad can go to the doctor and will pay a small part of the bills. They are both retired...
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    How does one friendzone a girl?

    Tell her: "Hey, you know, I like you, you are a very nice person, but I am afraid I am not ready for a relationship and I don't want to hurt you. But maybe we can be friends?" And then you ghost her forever. This is proven technique used by the worst people on the planet. Or: "Hey, you know, I...
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    Messed up early with this chick, salvageable or move on?

    Don't get too attached here. You are a rebound. She's just feeling lonely.
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    Trend about major cities that suck for game like San Francisco and Toronto.

    In Asia, where you have Chinese, you have prostitutes that are over-paid. They kill the market. They have too much money. And the girls know that. So they are less likely to have a free ONS but prefer to make $500 with a Chinese. The Chinese take like 10 girls at the same time. But these are...
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    Why do Simps even exist?

    Yes, it's a system. Toxic-pedagogy, boys raised as girls, totalitarian feminism, death of masculinity, male heroes replaced in video games, in movies. The radical feminism agenda is everywhere. My mom is sad because she won't have grand children, but she rationalizes the education she gave me...
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    Lost soul, tired of all this sht

    That's why they are here for. As a reminder that we have to take better care of ourselves.
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    Lost soul, tired of all this sht

    You are absolutely right. 3 months in the relationship I started spinning plates again because some red flags were becoming too obvious. But I should have dumped her at that point or moved her to the FWB category and let her chase me. And yeah, looking back at it, she wasn't that fun. I am an...
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    I am 36 and still learning...

    There is no problem with being a gentleman. But you have to be sexual. You get friendzoned because you don't create sexual attraction. You don't touch them, you don't tease them, you don't elicit any emotion in them, or you wait too long or you become a doormat. And if you don't want to be...
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    Lost and without purpose

    Hey man, I feel like you are lucky actually because you still have a lot to build: yourself, your finance, your social life, etc... I did a big life reset when I was 35, the next 4 years were quite good, I fixed a ton of issues in my life and became quite successful. But now I am 40, and you...
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    Have any of you seen guys get in great shape in their 30s?

    Yes, sure. The 30s are no problem, wait for the 50s or 60s and you'll see the real problems coming. I've a friend, 36, who started crossfit and diet, he lost about 35lbs in 6 months, but he was doing about 1-2h of crossfit a day, 4-5 days a week and he was eating healthy but a lot. After 1...
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