It doesn't matter if you text or call.....all that matters is her interest.....No need to rush in setting up a date either....girls are used to AFC's banging down their door for a date....don't be like them!!
Always get more numbers than just one girl when using sites to set up dates!!
Make a second attempt to get flaked on again?
Women who want to see you make damn sure to see you the first time......if it is legit she will make new plans to see you....anything else is a waste of your time.....she isn't interested!!
You have serious problems if you are worked up over a fat girl who goes online to get hit on!!
The dudes hitting on her online are just as repulsive a she is....she goes online to get an ego boost that she doesn't get offline....that's why those chicks are lifetime online users...no other...
No it is not the same!!
Telling a woman directly that you like her is different than getting her number...that is showing interest by getting the number.
You won't know that you like her until you actually go out with her to spend time with her!!
I got numbers from girls who appeared...
No it does not count!!
Breaking NC only counts if you communicate directly with her!!
Getting information from you in a general form is not communication with her!!
Delete her from your group....no reason to have her amongst the group!!
Don't count any NC days....just forget about...
If you were planning on fvcking her why are you inviting her to chill with your friends?
Just bring her over and fvck her!!
Your confidence sounds really low if your friends can knock it down that much....what are you going to do when strangers start hitting on women you want to date in...
This BPD stuff is a load of crap....checking for BPD symptoms on a web site does not diagnose her as BPD....she needs to be diagnosed by a medical professional to determine if she has BPD....you're not a doctor!!
How desperate are you going back to an ex for meaningless sex?
Everybody...
Keep this in mind when you get a text a few hours before your date where you read the chick has flaked...no need to waste your time on a chick who has zero interest in you.....you won't be getting laid even if she reschedules another date.
There is a big difference between begging for sex.... being needy or desperate....than escalating sexual interest that is already there....because the chick is showing that interest herself.....all you need to do is escalate on it until you get laid.
I still see a lot of threads where...
You had this working to your advantage.....but didn't use it....this was the perfect opportunity to bounce her out of there.....take her to another place where you can really escalate!!
I always choose a crowded bar....that way I can get her out of there....where we can be alone....this is...
Who cares!!
The day she ended your relationship is the day you should have stopped caring!!
I guarantee you she isn't thinking about you.....she is getting banged by another dude!!
Instead of wasting your time holding out hope for nothing......you should be out meeting new girls...then...
seem a bit beta you say?.....Dude, you are being a total beta here!!
Once a beta always a beta....she knows you as a beta.... flip your a-hole card and she wlll tell you to fvck off.....which is what you should tell her for insulting you!!
This is why I always advocate the 3 Strikes...
Chill out, take your prozac
You've been here for over 10 years....you're still a beta...still not knowing a damn thing....not good
Betas, AFC's, White Knights all have your same thought process.....you always jump to the aid of the woman accusing other men of "hating them"...."calling...
A guy posted about his girlfriend who lied to him
He found out she was texting her ex.....she lied about who she was texting.....he went through her phone....saw it was the ex....finally she said it was him
He found out she hung out with the ex......she lied to him saying she never...
What do you do? Dump her!!
Some guys will say that is too harsh.....give her the benefit of the doubt......you're being too insecure....don't loose a good thing....don't be so quick to end things....those are the betas talking who end up getting burned later on!!
When a woman is lying...
She's going to be upset that's for sure.....all chicks are when you break it off.
Just do it the fastest and easy way possible.....most chicks don't even care when they do it....they will do it by text or voicemail just to get it over with
a public place?.....it was only for 2...
Women like this are not going to change their ways....they will lie to you, but not change!!
A stance against religion is a strong conviction....that won't change!!
Her attitude seeing the friend behind your back won't change!!
Lying is a sign of disrespect that you shouldn't tolerate...
2 weeks.....and you have to give it this much thought?
2 weeks is nothing to contemplate this much over!!
Just come out and tell her the truth....say "I don't think it's going to work out with us"
If the roles were reversed.....do you think she would be on a message board asking women...
Awesome thread Rascal!! +1
This is too good of a thread to be locked!!
Women will treat you exactly how they think of you!!
If she loves you.....she will view you as high value.....she will respect you!!
If she doesn't like you.....she will view you as low value....she disrespects...
I disagree with some of your comment
The OP made a excellent post but left out something very important
In relationships when the chick is losing interest & going distant from her boyfriend.....she is communicating less or not at all with him.....that means she is already thinking about...
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