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Amen to you OP, you are correct! I live in NJ and I am close to 6 feet (6'1 with shoes/sneakers on). New Jersey is one of the shorter states in the country and I am NOT exaggerating when I say I am taller than 80% of the men in this state. I always say to myself, if you are over 5'10" in New...

You have heard the saying "The comfort zone is great, but nothing ever grows there" Continue to push yourself and put yourself in "awkward" situations (e.g. going to meetup.com by yourself) or challenging yourself to run a race, take an archery class (or any class), toastmasters' class for...

Good for you, I cannot imagine running 26.1 miles. A five-mile race is far and grueling enough...lol

Was talking to my friend about online dating and the swipe apps (Bumble, Hinge, Tinder, etc.) and how they are frustrating. He lives in a major city, gets a decent amount of dates and is even frustrated with it. I said "I would still rather meet a woman in person the old-fashioned way" and he...

Saw a cute girl at a conference today that I met maybe 8 years ago. She was married at the time when I met her, but she was still flirty. I saw her today (at same type conference only 8-9 years later) and saw her sitting down for the next presentation. I said hello to her (I initiated) and...

We constantly say on here that finding a woman you connect with should NOT be your priority or that a finding a woman you want to get to know better will NOT make you happier. I think deep down know we are deluding ourselves in saying finding a good woman won't drastically increase your...

S&P Index Fund? Can't go wrong with that

Very true, but easier said than done. I know it's very bad and not in good fortune to compare yourself to others, but very hard NOT to do. Especially when you see men no better than you and less with eye candy on their arm and you don't. It's very frustrating and demoralizing.

She could be a little intimidated=attracted Case in point tonight: I belong to one of those meetup groups that is quite large, but the one event I go to is the monthly meet/greet located in a hip town about 35 minutes north of me. Usually, the guy to gal ratio is not good (about 70/30 or...

I guess it's easier to stare at a woman's ass or tits without being obvious when you are passing quickly on a bike ;)

Maybe not 2 to 1, but it definitely leans towards men 60/40 or so and I don't know why.

Most of the time, yes.

Yeah, I get pre-race jitters as well (so talking to women before the race is not on my mind) since I know I have a world of pain coming my way. A 5K is still tough when you hit that wall at around the 2-mile mark.

I have a friend who is 5'5 one half inch and he has been married twice. He has done better than me in the woman department and I am 6 feet. 5'5" is short, but not terribly short where people will think "Man that guy is short! I think that is reserved for guys 5'4" and below.

Good for him if it makes him feel better about himself, however I am 6 feet tall and certainly don't have women throwing themselves at me. Also, 5'5" is NOT that short. I can see if the guy was 5'4" and under to have the procedure done, but not 5'5" Height is far from the end all be all that...

I have probably done about 30+ races over the last 15 years (5K's, 4 milers, 5 miles) etc. and I have never met a woman through one. The most IOI's I have gotten is the occasional glance. What has been your experience with these races? My experience with these races (at least in NJ) 1.) They...

Don't bet on these groups to meet cool people or meet cute chicks. There is one group I belong to that meets up at a bar once a month so I usually go. The guy to girl ratio is 5 to 1 and most of the people are average to below average looking and socially awkward. I'm about a 7 in looks and...

We are only talking a 10 to 15 year age difference here, not 20+ I am 46 and don't think a 31-year-old woman is out of my league at all for me being "too old" I am fit, have more wisdom, life experience and financial security than the 35-year-old version of myself.

We've all seen plenty of other men walking around with cute dates, girlfriends and wives. We constantly ask ourselves, why do these other men (half of them who are uglier than ourselves) have these women and we don't? Why him and not me? And yes, I know a man's good looks mean nothing if he...

If you are top 20% in looks, famous or have an amazing social circle (most don't) then this post doesn't apply to you. This is not a rant or a negative post, just telling it like it is. Where are the three main places where you will spend most of your time looking for women? (Bars/Clubs...