yellowstoneman2012
Don Juan
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- May 24, 2012
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She could be a little intimidated=attracted
Case in point tonight:
I belong to one of those meetup groups that is quite large, but the one event I go to is the monthly meet/greet located in a hip town about 35 minutes north of me. Usually, the guy to gal ratio is not good (about 70/30 or 2/1). A large amount of the guys as well are not that physically attractive or socially awkward so the competition is not too bad.
Anyhow, one of the female event organizers is a solid "7" and has a bubbly personality. I have briefly talked to her before on two seperate occasions at some of the other meetups in the months past.
The bar (we were outside) was very loud and I noticed she passed me a couple of times without even making eye contact, but yet she was going up to other guys (less attractive than me) and making small talk with them, being friendly to them. Yet, she was ignoring me?
This had me bummed out a little bit and when she later passed by my direction again I initiated a hi to her, clicked drinks, made a quick joke with her and talked to her maybe 15 seconds as she made her way by. I said to myself that I did my part and trying to follow her around and talk to her again would make me look silly. (Women don't like to be chased)
Anyhow, is there is a chance that perhaps there is something about me that she does not like and her "cold shoulder" was on purpose? Absolutely
Or..,..
She finds me attractive, and I intimidate her, hence the "cold shoulder."
Think about it? It's easier to talk/laugh/joke around and be yourself around a female or group of females that you are not attracted to? Why?
You don't give a damn what they think of you from a romantic standpoint and there is no pressure so they are easier to talk to than attractive women.
I would think women would be no different. She is being "friendlier" and more open to these other guys because she is not attracted/intimidated by them.
Thoughts?
Case in point tonight:
I belong to one of those meetup groups that is quite large, but the one event I go to is the monthly meet/greet located in a hip town about 35 minutes north of me. Usually, the guy to gal ratio is not good (about 70/30 or 2/1). A large amount of the guys as well are not that physically attractive or socially awkward so the competition is not too bad.
Anyhow, one of the female event organizers is a solid "7" and has a bubbly personality. I have briefly talked to her before on two seperate occasions at some of the other meetups in the months past.
The bar (we were outside) was very loud and I noticed she passed me a couple of times without even making eye contact, but yet she was going up to other guys (less attractive than me) and making small talk with them, being friendly to them. Yet, she was ignoring me?
This had me bummed out a little bit and when she later passed by my direction again I initiated a hi to her, clicked drinks, made a quick joke with her and talked to her maybe 15 seconds as she made her way by. I said to myself that I did my part and trying to follow her around and talk to her again would make me look silly. (Women don't like to be chased)
Anyhow, is there is a chance that perhaps there is something about me that she does not like and her "cold shoulder" was on purpose? Absolutely
Or..,..
She finds me attractive, and I intimidate her, hence the "cold shoulder."
Think about it? It's easier to talk/laugh/joke around and be yourself around a female or group of females that you are not attracted to? Why?
You don't give a damn what they think of you from a romantic standpoint and there is no pressure so they are easier to talk to than attractive women.
I would think women would be no different. She is being "friendlier" and more open to these other guys because she is not attracted/intimidated by them.
Thoughts?