Dude what are you on? I said I'm average looking and you went on a whole thing about being an average guy. Two separate things.
I should have clarified. Sometimes I'll ask. Sometimes I'll say "dance with me" in a command form and with a slight smirk. Sometimes I'll just try to dance without...
I don't really have a goal when I go clubbing. I find dancing to be a pretty stupid/pointless/weird activity, so its obviously not to dance. I guess ideally I would like to hook up.
I have some friends who go to bars and talk about random shyt... I enjoy that a lot better.
I do feel like...
Just picture an average looking guy. Not ugly. Not good looking. I prefer to remain anonymous.
Stories and examples of what exactly? I attempt to dance with girls, get rejected 95% of the time. My dancing comes off awkward because I suck at it, and that's what you are judged by in clubs.
If...
The lame guy in the video was following some kind of PUA manual. I couldn't care less about tactics, IOIs, etc... I can't dance, and I don't enjoy dancing. The "cool guy" in the video actually enjoys dancing and is probably good at it. I'm not. You see my predicament. Not only can I not dance...
I can't dance. I can BS it a little... Sort of... But my awkwardness is apparent to everyone. None of my friends' friends have any desire to get to know me when I meet them in a club, and I feel like they look at me funny (this may be in my head though) and they're a lot friendlier to other...
It hurt my heart and my balls reading that bro. All that texting... no response from her... then you texting again.... no response from her again... then you text again... I'm going to develop testicular cancer if you keep it up.
Just do yourself a favor and remind yourself that this girl you like is not special. Your misery is the result of the illusion that she is different from the rest.
UPDATE
So she texted me again. This time I replied:
Her: Hey?
Me: Who's this?
Her: If I tell you you'll stop replying -_-
Me: Now why would I do that?
Her: Cause when I texted from my old number you didn't answer. I think you're mad at me for going ghost ghost on you.
Me: Did I...
It was not a dumb move. You had to verify it was true before dumping on her.
Nearly every guy who was dumped or cheated on says this. I think the lesson to be learned is, never trust a girl enough to be vulnerable to her. Sorry if that's negative, but I think reality should take priority...
Already fukked a girl since she ended it. Not enough, I know. But I'm not one of these DJs who can go out and cold approach women. Not yet anyway.
Did you two bond on a deeper emotional level? This chick didn't want just sex. She actually wanted a relationship, and then gave up on the idea...
You misunderstand. I would not want to start hooking up with her again under any circumstances. That is not my goal here.
What I want is two things.
First, I want to hear her perspective regarding what the fukk happened. I know there's a 99% chance that it was another guy, and I'm OK...
THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR ADVICE SO FAR
I listened to you. I really did. Your visuals of her laughing at me while getting ****ed down by her new man completely repelled me from the idea and I did not message her.
However,
She fukking texted me "Hi.." Who's the beta now?
I don't know...
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