"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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  1. Plinco

    Why Are Men Losing Sexual Desire?

    ...put me around 30+ year old women and my sex drive is lower because it reflects on my values as such. If I'm dancing and having fun around college girls, my sex drive feels like it goes through the roof. My sex drive is highest first thing in the morning provided I get enough sleep, and...
  2. Identikit_Radiohead

    Why Are Men Losing Sexual Desire?

    ...of that. Then add in their masculine attitudes, "boss babe" ****, man-hatred and demeanor and you get a very unfeminine woman / population. Men have been emasculated. And the few slim, thin, fit, nubile women you see are 17-21yo or around college age - so off limits to most men over 24/25.
  3. Novice1

    Most obvious come-on that was missed

    "College" These past months, my classmate (the only beautiful girl in our class, this IT) literally handed me a condom in class.
  4. Identikit_Radiohead

    Are the differences between a female 5/10 & 6/10 subtle to you, or quite large jump in attractiveness?

    ...I do not. Maybe you see 5's as fat/ugly because it was the "norm" for you growing up? For me, growing up in the 80's and 90's in the UK It wasn't. Rarely you would see a fat young woman attend college/university when I was a young man of drinking age attending college in the mid-late 1990's.
  5. Novice1

    Escorts and the Ideas of Advocatus Diaboli

    I agree. to both RT, SQUIRREL, AD AND YOU. Game is in constant flux, what i think the most important part here is to be on your own frame(plans) at all times; with or without women, socially/financially smart and healthy physically/mentally. in my own experience -i only had 2 LTR'S and the first...
  6. Cheeky_James

    Proper Screening

    It’s just the excuse /cover story. It could be movie & chill, ****tails and chill, read international travel books & chill… It’s making it sexual /bringing up that frame and then making the play for it that matters. If she’s classy -make it champagne , strawberries & chill :D OPs screening...
  7. BillyPilgrim

    Proper Screening

    A college educated chick over 25 who has travelled internationally isn't going to be down for Jenga. That dude on reddit was targeting the same demo over and over. Don't advise legos or playdoh either. Twister is a different story.
  8. N

    What to do or how to network if there is only one junior Java, JavaScript developer job in my local city centre

    Holy sh*t. I didn’t realize companies weren’t hiring juniors like that. I’m glad I got out when I did, I feel bad for the new college grads. On one hand I was like “college would have been 10x easier if I went when AI was a thing” but then you’d have the job market, so..
  9. DonJefe19

    Remote work not doing me any favors

    touché, I can scout out upscale venues
  10. BPH

    Remote work not doing me any favors

    ...more...meeting women, or staying within your comfort zone? There are certainly higher-class bars where young professionals go, rather than college girls and frat boys. I don't particularly love driving an hour to go out in Philly either. But I know if I stay in and do nothing, I won't meet...
  11. Cheeky_James

    Remote work not doing me any favors

    I found WFH to be extremely depressing tbh, when I did it longer term. It was worse for my MH than the jail of the office in the end, as I was stuck in my spare room all day. (During Covid) If you can, take the laptop and go sit in a cafe or library where there are people to interact with and...
  12. DonJefe19

    Remote work not doing me any favors

    I've been working remote for the past 6 years. I enjoy the benefits. Even when I was in college, I came to the conclusion that I didn't want end up like everyone else having to be at a place, at a certain time, for said duration, and have to deal with everyone else in traffic for an hour of my...
  13. Barrister

    BRUTAL rejection: "we're not a match for a romance ... you're very safe to be around, confident, intelligent, funny, sweet, attractive ...

    There was nothing "brutal" about this. I remember getting this kind of message way back in the day in college when I was blue pill and didn't understand why I was getting them. This is the "you're too safe and boring but soooo nice" variant of text message that chicks send to guys who don't get...
  14. N

    Haven’t been on here in a long time still trying to get my life together

    ...you. Lastly, even BaronOfHair disagrees with that last point about the property owner’s stance on marijuana use. Because I went to community college after high school, dropped out and started working instead but worked at jobs that were dead end, had enough of that and chose to go back to...
  15. A

    Why are women attracted to soccer players?

    What if you compare the soccer player with a calisthenics athlete? They can do things that look outright superhuman in person. On YouTube there are tons of shorts. The reaction seems uniquely positive from women in comparison to other sports.
  16. I

    What happened Alpha Male PuA theory/advice??

    Looks always mattered. Hell, back in college like 15 years ago my buddy was looks maxing. Difference is, he was doing that while also being alpha. If you're just looks maxing but otherwise have no edge, you're just going to come off as effeminate/weak. Women's biology doesn't lie, they want...
  17. Plinco

    Why did I hesitate?

    To clarify, it wasn't her that you're afraid of; she's not stronger than you. You're afraid of what other people might do to you if you get a label, like a 'sexual harasser.' You've been conditioned that way thanks to feminism. The solution is immersion. Just like going to a country to...
  18. N

    Haven’t been on here in a long time still trying to get my life together

    Props to you for pushing yourself out of your comfort zone and forcing yourself to go do that. Like I did say in my last reply to you, I am willing to attend singles events to get myself started. Maybe that would be better than online dating because it requires me to interact with women in...
  19. Xclemz

    Why did I hesitate?

    I'm a recovering AFC and I decided to take a turn and start approaching girls and spin plates. Today I got out of my hostel (I'm a college student) and decided to walk around to see if I can approach girls. I saw a girl walking my direction and that's when I decided I'll talk to her, but my...
  20. A

    Haven’t been on here in a long time still trying to get my life together

    ...decided to walk into my own execution, yet the second attempt took me barely 10 minutes! And imagine! My second try ever. Two HB8-9, 18yo, college girls, even competing in sports at a national level. All I did was ask if I could buy them something to drink. It, however, was supremely...
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