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  1. AlphaNate

    Pursuing girls you don't like at all

    So there's a girl I want to ****. She's probably a 7, but she's "my type," so to me her looks are higher than a 7. Problem? Can't stand her. She's literally said to me that she's perfect. Red flag, I know. I won't go into all the other personality traits of hers that are awful. Do I even...
  2. AlphaNate

    How to get the engagement ring back?

    About 3 years ago, I fell hard for a "unicorn." I asked her to marry me and she said yes. We broke up last June. We've had zero contact since about October. We live in different states now, but I will be in her town for an unrelated matter next week. I know where she lives and works. Any good...
  3. AlphaNate

    Why having an approach plan ruins the approach

    I'm not talking about preparation. Please shower, dress nicely (wear a blazer, you dolt), and stay relaxed. Be in shape to make it easier on yourself. But here's what happens when you plan an approach in your head. You have what you want to say and how you want to say it. You bring that with...
  4. AlphaNate

    What's wrong with this chick?

    Seriously, I'd like to know what's wrong with this person. Met her on Tinder, gave her my number, and she starts texting me screening questions immediately. I told her we can meet for a drink and go from there. This is what followed: I don't smoke or want kids, but I wasn't telling her that...
  5. AlphaNate

    Dating black chicks

    So, I've never dated a black woman. Now, I have two dates, one this weekend and another next week (assuming no flakes). Both are around 30. I'm attracted to black girls, so I'm not really sure why I never explored this, but I've decided to give it a go. I'm not so much concerned about the...
  6. AlphaNate

    Going out into social situations alone

    Alright, men. I've been away for a while, but I'm almost completely back. My body is nearly where I want it, my wardrobe is slick and classic, and my confidence is up. Still working on myself, too. I've had some recent success with social circle chicks and OLD, but that's getting stale quickly...
  7. AlphaNate

    Making a girl wait after she's already warmed up

    Out of the game for a few years, back now, still getting the hang of things. Anyway, I have an 8 showing IOI, and I plan on acting. Last night, I was preoccupied. She texts me saying she wants to come over. We've hung out, we've kissed, but she hasn't been to my place yet. I'm not rearranging...
  8. AlphaNate

    Reformed alcoholic, could use some advice

    Hello, men! I've posted in another thread about my progress with quitting drinking and getting my body back where I want it, so I won't go into that. At 47 days sober, there are a couple things I could use some advice on. Some activities that don't involve drinking. I live near Charlotte, so...
  9. AlphaNate

    Learning to Cook

    Hello, men! So, lately I've taken a venture that I'd never really considered before: cooking! I'm still learning and still getting the hang of it - online recipes help quite a bit. I was working out date details with a girl a few weeks ago, and she couldn't decide where she wanted to go. It...
  10. AlphaNate

    Fell for a 10, got engaged, 3 years later and I'm single again, need help getting back on track

    I thought this was it. I thought she was "the one." I'm an idiot. I'm not looking for sympathy, but I do want to explain a little. We were super-happy together. I've never met anyone like her, and she was a solid 10, the prettiest girl I've ever been with. We were together for a couple years...
  11. AlphaNate

    My First 10

    Well, 9.9 technically, since that's as high as my scale goes. I'm used to giving advice, so this is different for me. This girl is the most beautiful girl I've ever met, smart, funny, has a great laugh, and is flat out amazing. She's used to rich guys, but I am not rich. :) I do NOT...
  12. AlphaNate

    Having trouble ejaculating...

    :down: I'm seeing several women at the time, and I'm having trouble with all of them. It's only been happening the last month or two. The only way I can seem to finish is to do it myself. Even then, it doesn't always work. I've had this problem in the past, but it's never been this often. Help?
  13. AlphaNate

    DJ tattoos... any ideas?

    I didn't see a thread specifically relating to this. I want to get a new tat that reminds me of my DJ status, without making it blatantly obvious as to what it means. Any ideas?
  14. AlphaNate

    IM to Texting to Blind Date to Laid

    Still new here. Still probably doing things all wrong. But maybe this will help someone. There was a minor issue at work today and something had to be done for a nurse on our network. That nurse's name looked familiar. I checked Facebook and she was a friend of mine that had Liked a few of my...
  15. AlphaNate

    SMS banter between two alphas

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  16. AlphaNate

    SHB won't leave her house...

    I'm new here, obviously, but I've always been decent with women. I've been studying for the last year or so and have seen drastic results. :rockon: There's a girl that, at times, makes me feel OQ, even though she's a 9.5. She's stalker-ish, but only with texts and email. If I call, she "has...
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