"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SHB won't leave her house...

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I'm new here, obviously, but I've always been decent with women. I've been studying for the last year or so and have seen drastic results. :rockon:

There's a girl that, at times, makes me feel OQ, even though she's a 9.5. She's stalker-ish, but only with texts and email. If I call, she "has to run." If I dare her to call, she texts back an excuse. Yet she is ALMOST CONSTANTLY trying to get me to come to HER place.

It's become blatantly obvious that she's involved, but I've been with involved girls. I've never had one so adamantly deny BF exists, though.

She is not married... but maybe the ex-husband is in the picture? Why would she lie about it? Most girls understand that I don't give a **** about their "real-life" men.

I love women, but I'm a survivor first. Should I drop this SHB??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Turns out she was just THAT intimidated by me. Wow, these tactics are powerful. Or she could just be hiding an alternate life... who really knows?

Anyway, deal closed.
 

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Sure! Well, I can try.

After probably 2 months of texting/emailing/talking at work, I (apparently) had her completely petrified of me. This was kind of new territory for me--I've dealt with similar situations, but never from a bombshell like her.

When I got there last night, her house is HUGE, and I know what she does for a living, so I assume a man is paying for it. She didn't like me asking any questions. I chilled on the questions (not a problem for me anyway).

So after a bit of C&F + Kino, she was primed. No crazy beta male showed up or anything, so I'd call it a complete win. She DID have some work done that I wasn't aware of, but still she looked fantastic. That could have contributed to her nervousness, I guess.

And she said she never climaxes. It took a few hours, but I handled that. Twice.

I'd assume she's dating someone... possibly her ex-husband. Again, why she never admitted to it, I don't know.
 
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