"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well, 9.9 technically, since that's as high as my scale goes.

I'm used to giving advice, so this is different for me.

This girl is the most beautiful girl I've ever met, smart, funny, has a great laugh, and is flat out amazing. She's used to rich guys, but I am not rich. :)

I do NOT have Oneitis. I'm actively seeing several other women. She is pursuing me. She is texting me (3:1 ratio). We're set to meet outside work. I feel like I've done everything right.

One issue: I've never dealt with a woman of this caliber. Is there anything in particular I should know?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sneevox

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The thing you should know is that she's only a human that looks a bit more attractive than the rest of them.

Act like you'd act around a fat girl. Make her really work for your d!ck.
 
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Good work, continue to passively do what you are doing, it is working so far. Keep on actively seeing those other women.
 
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XI AlphaMale IX said:
One issue: I've never dealt with a woman of this caliber. Is there anything in particular I should know?
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She's probably a 7 without makeup.
 
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Is there anything in particular I should know?


She's just like any other woman. Also, rich guys don't do it for her... she isn't with one now. So be your broke-ass self and treat her like a 6.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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the biggest thing is to make sure you remain congruent. any sniff of this and she will drop you like a bad habit. show her your active lifestyle, talking a big game will land you into the frame as a BS'er. do things that are fun and active. show her you do have other options and you wont be needy and you wont become clingy. dont call her text her everyday, that keeps her persuing you.
 
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remember that right after sex she will drop a full 2 points.
 
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