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At the risk of being flamed for being an AFC with One-itis... There are some girls who I don't simply lust for, they make me feel. They're usually not incredibly attractive at the physical level, but they wake up something different in me. I do the nearly impossible: I feel SEXUALLY attracted...

Everyone read Bukowski! Novels AND Poems.

Paul Owen!! I thought you were dissolving in a tub of lyme in Hell's Kitchen? Well good to see ya.

Tell her "if it's any consolation, I put it in the butt." She'll feel relieved her daughter won't be getting pregnant.

Went to the movies with this one girl who had about 60 percent interest. I'd lowered this interest level over the course of an hour-long walk before the movie. She was sitting as far to the left in her seat as possible (i was sitting to the right of her). I put my arm around her to bring her...

Disrespecting a girl's friend is not a good way to get into her panties. I would have included the fatty, just played cards with both of them. Then I'd get BOTH numbers and say "we should all hang out sometime," hinting at a friendship tip. Then you only call the cuter one and set up a coffee...

Go through DJ Boot Camp. Twice if you have to.

MikeYikes, I don't think wise mage should leave this site. This "dj crap" is like fire. It is a powerful tool to tame and use, but if you get careless or don't understand it, it will hurt you. I went through a phase mid senior year in high school where I thought I had to be a complete moron...

You came on way, way too strong here. I'm sorry to tell you this, but it reeked of desperation. This is your first big clue that this girl is not very interested. She said "Sure" then in the same breath said she was busy? Second big clue. Like not listening to her and begging her...

Jay, maybe you're not actually getting them talking about themselves? It's a common mistake for a guy to just yap his head off and make a fool of himself. After the first thirty seconds or so you should be asking questions and getting them on a roll about who they are. This might boost your...

I agree with you, Flyguy, in that I don't think it really matters what opener you use. Words communicate much less than facial expression or posture or how you carry yourself (confidence). The biggest thing that keeps guys from working on their cold approaching game is the feeling of shame...

I agree.

I live in a partying college town. For most of this year my best hope to get any action was to hook up with a drunk girl at a kegger. Obviously I've grown tired of having little/no opportunity for success; I never talked to any girls during the day or in class I always thought I'd get...

I would have tried NLP but I read Ross Jeffries' book and the commands and patterns are laughable. It seems like the women you say these things to wouldn't be turned on but just creeped out... What kinds of patterns do you use? I can't knock it til I try it I guess. Give me some examples of...

I know a short, skinny, weird-lookin little guy that has an incredibly hot girlfriend. I ate lunch at the cafeteria with this dude a couple times, and it's incredible how eager he is to talk to hot girls (strangers!)...he doesn't cheat on his girlfriend, he just says he's "stayin' sharp."...

I think this is a pretty important post. Maybe it only got one reply because there was only one person on at the time that gave cold approaching a good enough try to feel proud about posting honestly???

Lots of people say cold approaches do not work for them. I would like to know the extent to which these individuals have practiced making cold approaches, the frequency and nature of this practice. How many of you have actually completed the DJ Bootcamp and integrated cold approach practice...

I have bones to pick with a few of you. ZeQ, I personally would have lost interest if this girl's interest is THAT easy to get that she liked your friend too. She could be really easy, and yes, casual sex is fun but do you want to lose your virginity to a skankie girl? Rule of thumb: if it...

No I'd say this is a pretty darn good sign of low interest and she liked the attention of kino and was having fun otherwise so she decided to lead you on. Sh1t happens abandon all hope of pursuing her.

I don't quite understand my prolonged dry spell, but it sucks. I haven't so much as kissed or touched a girl in a sexual way in about three months, and even three months ago it was only a short makeout session that was the brief break in a prior several-months-long dry spell. I recently...