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My cousin is acting as a go-between for me and her friend. I told my cousin I liked her friend and then today I receive a call from her friend (we'll call her J) inviting me over to watch a movie with her and her suitemates. I know J is single. She is also shy, and a "good girl". Not...

you need to REALLY stop caring about what you SAY or DO with these girls. start experimenting and pushing those boundaries of what is acceptable and what isn't. whenever you start to feel nervous, or start worrying about f'ing up, remember to get playful

I did it. Didn't have any alcohol the entire night tonight. I'm feelin pretty proud of myself. Too bad I'm not feelin any boob, though. I was sposed to go out with two guys, good wingmen. Then we went to one of their houses and they all started drinking and I hung around waiting for them...

I've hooked up with random chicks twice in a row when I was completely drunk. I'd just dance on the dancefloor and get them dancin dirty then kiss them. Pretty simple deal. Well I'm not consuming one drop of alcohol tonight. I am going to work myself into a trance-like state of supreme...

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Starman, awesome response. I concur... ernie, you need to see that counselor and spill your guts to him/her. Together you will trace back and uproot your feelings of inferiority. They are really just feelings, and not the reality. In reality you are every bit as good and worthy as anyone...

Slickster, you are about as smart as my foot.

Last night I was kind of depressed because a phone call with my Saturday night random hookup did not go well. She seemed ashamed of having made out with me after knowing me for 20 minutes (we were both drunk). But anyway, she was hot and then she shied away so I was all down last night. Then...

My guess is that she isn't very into you. What girl with genuine sexual attraction for a man would be able to deprive herself the pleasurable experience of kissing him? Your thinking is backwards. Your thinking is that she is in a position to GIVE you something. And you are in a position to...

...speaking of little rhyme or reason.... DJ Girl: organize your thoughts a little better next time...what were you trying to say with the above post?

There is a big difference between being calm and in control, and being "Slick" or "money". I find when I'm calm and completely uninhibited and comfortable that girls find they can tell me so many things about themselves...things they would never normally tell other people. Nervousness is...

Don't listen to DJ girl. Sometimes there's just no rhyme or reason to chick behavior and you gotta power through with SUPER confidence and an almost arrogan assumption that they're still interested. Call again, if you leave a message keep it SHORT, and if she doesn't call back you do not...

So I come back from clubbing with my cuz on Friday night, at around 2:30. (Danced up a few HBs, got a number :)) The nerd that I am, I go online after I come home. I'm half drunk by then. This girl I've been talking to online IMs me. To refresh your memories, we met online and realized we...

A lack of sleep does sort of change the brain chemistry and make you care less about what you say or do around girls. But "don't sleep" and "exercise" really conflict with one another. The latter is more important. Don't abuse yourself

Before you all say this is AFC, I must tell you I witnessed the following mini-conversation take place and WORK: Guy: So say something. Girl: Say what? Guy: I don't know. Anything. Something interesting. Girl: Uuuummmm, I can't think of anything interesting. Guy: Something about...

Player, I think you were a little too picky with the email TTAG sent. If I had to think so extensively about power and ownership every time I talked to a girl...well I'd get a headache at the very least. Maybe you are mindful of the power balance on a subconscious level. I think he had fun...

openuri, whenever you have a negative voice inside your head telling you...or, even worse, reasserting the ASSUMPTION...that you are not worthy or not appropriate to exist happily, you need to confront and shoot down that negative voice. Give it a label, that helps me. Every time I hang out...

jive that is what i am reading now! that and the Ultimate Secrets of Total Self Confidence by Anthony something...too lazy to go upstairs and look at the author...

Jake, i got laid exactly ONCE last year, and this was with a girl from back home during winter break. Mild social anxiety combined with simply being a freshmen are my (realistic) excuses. This year will be much better, I feel it in my bones.

To answer your question Jake I live in the san fernando valley when I'm not in Santa Barbara at college :)