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  1. SW15

    Get off the Dating Apps Now

    ...of men with bachelor's degrees and mediocre quality jobs/careers. Physiques are mediocre. As far as personas, they are betas. I see a lot of "nice guys" that could use some more edge. Perhaps this is a function of the circles that I've run in during the past 20 years (since college graduation).
  2. B

    Is it possible for one event to drastically impact the course of a man's dating/sex life?

    Nah, they prioritized playing Dungeons and Dragons and f-cking around on The Atari, over activity which stood to REALLY enrich their lives. They were forerunners of the sort of fellas described here 9:00-the end Not prioritizing your own self-care isn't the same as "falling behind the...
  3. G

    Dudes, gals, and entitlement

    ...already had a kid from husband 1 (and was pregnant with a baby from husband 2, her then-current husband) took my v-card back when I was in college. Ok, I never recall you saying older cooch in particular frequents the venues you told me to check out. Not saying I would have done the...
  4. SW15

    My Ex started an OnlyFans

    ...tend to pick out boring but acceptable clothes for their husbands, long term boyfriends, or unmarried sons. When I was in high school and college, my mom had a terrible habit of picking out clothes for me that were too conservative. They were nice clothes but more acceptable for refined...
  5. CoolWave1331

    Women favor monogamy. Men favor polygamy

    This realization came to me during my University days. I went to College in Illinois and lived on campus. I would play up the i'm from Minnesota angle to sound "exotic" (LOL I have family in IL), i'd meet girls in class or parties etc. Was during pillow talk the most interesting conversations...
  6. Barrister

    Get off the Dating Apps Now

    I consider cold approach “cold” - I have zero idea who the women are I’m approaching. These are usually in a bar setting or if I’m out and about shopping or what not and strike up conversation with a woman I’ve never met. But I don’t know them whatsoever. Warm approach to me is anything where I...
  7. SW15

    Get off the Dating Apps Now

    ...really is. What do you think it is? I'd say warm approaches are approaches at private residence parties and at the sponsor bar after a co-ed sports league. I don't think approaching a woman after a college class or after a fitness class at a standalone studio/big box gym counts as warm...
  8. C

    Get off the Dating Apps Now

    the tinder threads on bodybuilding.com from 2012-2014 ish were legendary. The good looking members (not just ripped but handsome) got absolutely insane results that would make any PUA coach cry into his pillow lol. It was like a free prostitute app for a while and the stories were funny as hell...
  9. SW15

    Get off the Dating Apps Now

    It seemed easier to get dates with early Tinder, but I experienced numerous "one date, no sex, no second date" occurrences in 2013. :mad:
  10. B

    Get off the Dating Apps Now

    Early Tinder was great...it came out when I was a sophomore in college. Everybody understood the assignment.
  11. SW15

    "Are Dating Apps Really Stacked Against Men?"

    ...that Match had a hyper effective period in the early 2000s when beta males were able to get laid off of it with relative ease. I was in college when Match was in its hyper effective period, so I never got to experience that. College students in the early to mid 2000s weren't using tech to...
  12. G

    Is it possible for one event to drastically impact the course of a man's dating/sex life?

    I'm intrigued you've shared more. The fact you left a charter school to attend an inner city school, no matter what the reasoning, shows a massively poor level of judgment on your part. Yet you expect me to take the unsolicited advice you've given me.
  13. B

    Is it possible for one event to drastically impact the course of a man's dating/sex life?

    ...school and it was incredibly hard to maintain good grades, so staying there likely would've made it difficult to get into a decent college. Because of the issue with grades, I also did not have time to participate in sports or any extracurriculars. Furthermore, this school was about a 30...
  14. B

    Is it possible for one event to drastically impact the course of a man's dating/sex life?

    People get struck by lightning and win the lottery too, although probably wouldn't be wise to count on it happening again as some sort of strategy to bank on. If OP spent a 1/20th of the time in the gym working on his pear shaped female physique as he does trying to argue on this board against...
  15. Solomon

    FR: Unexpected Vibes from a 23-Year-Old COD Chick at the Bar

    ...culminated to this. Being in a chill frame and whatever I was putting down she was picking it up. Turns out she’s 23, in community college, and works part-time at the bar. We ended up stepping outside and talking some more, no pressure, no weird vibes, just good conversation. Before...
  16. G

    Is it possible for one event to drastically impact the course of a man's dating/sex life?

    Umm, I prefer 45+ because of my pregnancy phobia. Nothing to do with my confidence level in being able to get a woman my age/younger. In fact, it's been said many times on this forum that I'd have an easier time getting a woman my age/slightly younger than getting a 45+ year old woman. Many a...
  17. SW15

    Is it possible for one event to drastically impact the course of a man's dating/sex life?

    He chases outliers. That's pretty good. The summer between high school and college can be an odd time for finding new women. It can work for casual sex but long term is going to be off the table in a lot of cases because college is not going to be within driving distance. Even elite looking...
  18. G

    Is it possible for one event to drastically impact the course of a man's dating/sex life?

    More recently than 4 years ago, there was my most recent actual date (which I have a thread about) in late summer 2023. I managed to get that date without going to the gym (and I never even had to ask her out to get the date...the date naturally happened as a result of me coming across as a...
  19. B

    Is it possible for one event to drastically impact the course of a man's dating/sex life?

    ...EDIT: My longest dry spell ever...of all time...was 4 months. They were the 4 months after I graduated from high school before I went to college. That was the year I lost my virginity. Since then, I have never paid for sex, and never gone without it longer than those 4 months; whether I had a...
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