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  1. CoolWave1331

    Gym vs Jogging outside/Calisthenics/Using Parks eq

    You have a decent calisthenics park there. We got a place around here with a pullup bar, parallel bars that I go to and at home I have lebert bars for dips, inverted rows, an olympic bar w/ plates to do military presses etc. I stopped going to the gym about 2 yrs ago and went down the...
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    How much do looks matter

    Your looks are the "bait on the hook". If she doesn't like what she see's you don't get the chance to/she will not allow you to work your magic. The magic in this case is the process of picking her up. I've been witness to a lot of clumsy approaches that worked just because the guy was...
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    Why No Contact needs to be Sugar Free, not Sugar Coated

    If you're hoping that by making yourself scarce she'll come back that doesn't give me a lot of confidence in the second go around being any better. I would think there's a high probability the same issues would come up again. If things end (for whatever reason) that signals to me the end of...
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    5 good reasons women ignore men

    I'm new. I don't think i've seen an official pick up thread but i'll try to add some successful pickups going forward. I'm not sure how educational it will because a lot of my successes are just a matter of being in the right place at the right time. I only approach when I think they want me...
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    Who "enjoys" approaching women?

    I like approaching women when I can tell they are receptive to my approach. It's interesting how you find yourself vibing and being in synch when there's mutual interest despite the initial awkwardness as strangers. I don't like approaching for the sake of approaching. It's not a problem of...
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    Reply for "Will you buy me a drink?"

    I can't really say i've had this experience before with strangers. Maybe it just happens in the movies. The closest thing to this that ever happened was I was sitting at a bar watching a sports game with my friend when a couple of girls came in. They sat right next to us. The one that sat...
  7. CoolWave1331

    Roll Call....How did you guys spend your Saturday night?

    I spent most of the day/evening at the beach. Got sun, swam, etc
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    Dealing with a combative woman, draining

    Regularly quarrelsome over minor things, even if she happens to be wrong, is a red flag It also seems she strategically switches this behavior on and off: so she's manipulative as well This person is no good for you bro and you should be out of there if you've already had several conversations...
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    Do you think a "silver fox" can still mack if he's broke?

    I don't see why they wouldn't. I guess it depends on what you believe the main trigger is. I personally think its appearance. Every man has either been on the receiving end or seen a woman clearly smile at a guy or initiate some sort of contact to push things in that direction (date etc)...
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    Are videogames a unhealthy habit?

    It can be if you prioritize it above everything. Let's say you spend about 3-4 hrs a day playing video games. At least an hour could've been spent on exercising for example. They are fun. I have an Xbox and I still play once in a while but there's really no ROI on them --- unless you're a...
  11. CoolWave1331

    Do any of you have insomnia?

    Ditching devices at night helped me sleep better
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    Signs of High Interest

    From my experience: If you've already talking and know each other, then they ask questions related to whether you have a girlfriend / they mention to you they don't have a boyfriend/are single. If you don't talk to each other and are strangers, you can tell when you look at each other. If she...
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    Most obvious come-on that was missed

    I think this was a missed opportunity: I was at the movie theater once with a friend of mine. Our turn came to use the kiosk to buy the tickets and I told him it was all good, that i'd pay for his ticket. As I was doing this I hear a female voice behind me say 'hey do you want to pay for...
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