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It's OVER for BehindTheCurveCels.

I'm aware dressing like a 30-something or 40-something suburban dad isn't ideal. All I'm saying is dressing like a suburban dad around the same age as me isn't as much of a cooch-repellent as dressing like a 70 year old grandpa (so, compared to some of my outfits, 30-49 year old suburban dad is...

This is relevant. This becomes more relevant for men who are married/live together with girlfriends and the relationship is longer than 5 years. Wives, long term girlfriends, and mothers tend to pick out boring but acceptable clothes for their husbands, long term boyfriends, or unmarried sons...

This realization came to me during my University days. I went to College in Illinois and lived on campus. I would play up the i'm from Minnesota angle to sound "exotic" (LOL I have family in IL), i'd meet girls in class or parties etc. Was during pillow talk the most interesting conversations...

I consider cold approach “cold” - I have zero idea who the women are I’m approaching. These are usually in a bar setting or if I’m out and about shopping or what not and strike up conversation with a woman I’ve never met. But I don’t know them whatsoever. Warm approach to me is anything where I...

In the past 15 years, more and more men have made online dating (both at the tail end of the website era and with swipe apps) their primary method for getting women. Bar approaching has been declining for that 15 years. It's gotten more noticeable in the swipe app era. I've had a hard time...

the tinder threads on bodybuilding.com from 2012-2014 ish were legendary. The good looking members (not just ripped but handsome) got absolutely insane results that would make any PUA coach cry into his pillow lol. It was like a free prostitute app for a while and the stories were funny as hell...

It seemed easier to get dates with early Tinder, but I experienced numerous "one date, no sex, no second date" occurrences in 2013. :mad:

Early Tinder was great...it came out when I was a sophomore in college. Everybody understood the assignment.

Do you have any thoughts on Caleb Jones' 5 Phases of Effectiveness Theory for online dating theory? https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/michael-sartain-approaching-strangers-is-dead.284242/page-4#post-3161473 Phase One: Early Adopters Phase Two: Hyper-effectiveness Phase Three: Normal...

I'm intrigued you've shared more. The fact you left a charter school to attend an inner city school, no matter what the reasoning, shows a massively poor level of judgment on your part. Yet you expect me to take the unsolicited advice you've given me.

That event did not have a massive impact on my success with women. My first high school brought a bully from my middle school into the mix who gave me a hard time. It was a science/math-focused school and it was incredibly hard to maintain good grades, so staying there likely would've made it...

People get struck by lightning and win the lottery too, although probably wouldn't be wise to count on it happening again as some sort of strategy to bank on. If OP spent a 1/20th of the time in the gym working on his pear shaped female physique as he does trying to argue on this board against...

There’s something about summer that just hits different. Yesterday in the late afternoon. I stopped by the local bar near my place. You know the kind, casual spot, sand volleyball courts out front, music playing, everyone glowing with that early summer energy. It’s a hotspot this time of year...

Umm, I prefer 45+ because of my pregnancy phobia. Nothing to do with my confidence level in being able to get a woman my age/younger. In fact, it's been said many times on this forum that I'd have an easier time getting a woman my age/slightly younger than getting a 45+ year old woman. Many a...

He chases outliers. That's pretty good. The summer between high school and college can be an odd time for finding new women. It can work for casual sex but long term is going to be off the table in a lot of cases because college is not going to be within driving distance. Even elite looking...

More recently than 4 years ago, there was my most recent actual date (which I have a thread about) in late summer 2023. I managed to get that date without going to the gym (and I never even had to ask her out to get the date...the date naturally happened as a result of me coming across as a...

The fact that you got lucky once 4 years ago and are using that as your excuse for not going to the gym, because in your brain it "can happen again" is such a wildly impressive amount of copium... What if I'm right? What if, by going to the gym and getting in shape, you just magically had more...

Regardless of the explanation with the HR rep, the fact her (what I thought was) choosing signal turned out to probably be nothing simply reinforces why I'm reluctant to act on choosing signals. Imagine a student who gets a math problem wrong just about every time he raises his hand...

That can help. Most all-male high schools have socials/dances with the nearby all-female high schools. @MatureDJ 's high school was an anomaly on that. Even with those socials/dances, the K-8 social network matters. It is good that it seems like he attended a school that was a good fit for...