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Hello JcKey Great for you. You are having fun and having success with this young woman, which is more than what we read a lot about on this forum. You are having more success' than men 10 years older than you on this site. You've got a good thing going. And so has this young lady...

Ah ah ah ! I can't help you and I can't help it, but you sure have made my day! You're done for dude. Whatever got hold of you to put yourself in that mess? You lied while you couldn't possibly find a way out of this. What is your IQ by the way? The only thing that I can think that...

Mr. Casanova I do concur with some of the precepts that are extolled on this site and that you put forward. However, I don't think that they should be applied without measure or considering the particular circumstances. The precepts put forward here are not the end all to all the...

Hello JcKey I repeat. You are doing great up to now and you are achieving all your goals with your actual moves and your behavior. Do you want to ruin it? It's ok for you to continue to put your desires forward and that young woman will continue to respond to you as she has done up to...

I agree with you JCKey. Don't force her. I think that you are doing the perfect moves with her. This girl knows where you are standing and that is what she is seeking. She is not rejecting you, she is just finding her pace to join you. Keep up the good work and she'll gladly join you...

Well it's fun that she thought about you. Anything is possible; she might have a good memory about you and wants to approach you for herself, or she's thinking that one of her friends that she is bringing along will like you. Keep your options open and have fun.

Dear Stork This girls is crazy. How do you and how come that you bear with her? Life can be more fun then in a «relationship» like the one that you are in.

Umm. I don't know if there is a perfect answer to that one. For the moment, sure call her after a few days that you have seen her but make it short. She'll be happy and excited to see that you are interested with her and showing your interest. I think you can call her once every few...

Hello JcKey Don't let it bother you. Up to now everything has been ok, asn't it? She's a young woman and does't know how to respond perfectly. What she told your friend might be just an excuse that she let fly because she figured that he would tell you. This so that you can bear with...

Dear young man You seem to know the answer to your dilema. Find activities like sports partners, movies, whatever. Keep occupied and when you are with a lady keep proposing activities to her. That should interest her. It doesn't have to be expensive : go to the park for a picnic, a walk...

Dear sir Beware moody girls sending contradictory signs (cold shower, hot shower). She can turn on you anytime and file a sexual harassment complaint with the blink of the eye. Do you wish to lose your job, you reputation and potentially your ability to find work? Stay clear and watch...

I guess that woman changed heart. She has a good thing going and this guy is getting shafted. I wish for him that he will wise up financially.

Well, like I wrote before, I think you made the right decision. However, I do find funny that one of the reasons that you considered for her rejection is her political beliefs. Only in America as you say.

The divorce rate in Canada for first unions is 50%. However 80% of these dissolutions are initiated by the women. The separation rate for second and third unions are much higher, somewhat around 80%. As women at 80% are those that initiate the dissolutions, I advise men to be wary when...

JC You are worrying quite too much. That young woman has given you all the signs that she is interested and has accepted all your proposals up to now. Why dither? Don't worry about doing all the perfect moves with her. That young woman is not into playing mind or control games with you...

Well, I would still stay clear of this kind of official «commitment». Your experience was with that girl then. It's not a given that this new young lady holds the same beliefs. Cross that bridge only when you get to it, only if you have to, and only if she opens up on the subject...

I'm not sure if I am getting your question right as my english is partial (my mother tongue is not english). Are you telling us that you want to ask her to be your girlfriend so that she then can have the choice to reject you if se feels like it? If that is your question, my answer is the...

Uhm? Got me there. First of all, I'd be surprised that she would ask you. So you are worryying (right spelling?) needlessly. If she does ask you over the phone, why not turn it into a bit of amusing banter? Like telling her that you were looking at her eyes to find the soul in there...

If she does ask the question. Don't say anything. Just answer her with a frank staightforward kiss, and I am not talking about a kiss on the cheek. Don't «splurge» and have an all mucky and drooling kiss, but do kiss her on the lips. Are you keeping condoms close? I know that you are...

My advice (again) DON'T ask her now or even ever to be your official Girlfriend. Don't do it! Just do and act the part of the boyfriend, but DON'T ask her to be your girlfriend. If you do, you will sound insecure and wishee washee and you will give her power over you and your...