"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How often should you ask a girl out?

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You are worrying quite too much. That young woman has given you all the signs that she is interested and has accepted all your proposals up to now. Why dither?

Don't worry about doing all the perfect moves with her. That young woman is not into playing mind or control games with you at this moment. She just wants the pleasure of frequenting you and experimenting with building a relationship with a boyfriend and growing up to be a woman.

Do the same. If you do a couple of mistakes like we all do, well, it will be part of your acquiring experience. Think firstly of having fun with her. That's what both of you want. Don't ruin it by being too tactical before your age. You have plenty of time in front of you for dealing with the vagaries of complex women strategies.

Don't put that young woman down. She has been a willing participant up to now and she has been positive and shown you all the signs that she's ok. Have fun with her. Be young and free.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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