Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Thanks. I’m gonna have to make a cheat sheet on the members here to add context to their posts.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I had to think about this question.
lol @ the bug eyes.
Can you rate me via PM?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
aure dude fire away
You’re an intensely hypergamous and attractive woman. You’ve gone for, and because of your looks, have succeeded in getting alpha males, which is how it works. This is the opposite of unique.
Real meaning: “The world needs more high-status and attractive men.”
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lmao.
yeah surrrrre he is. Riiiight.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Agreed. Most are features you couldn’t change anyway (without surgery).
Let's correct something. The "alpha" guys went for me. Competed for me. All I had to do was say yes and be who I am. I don't "go after" men. Never needed to.
I out earned both my husbands when I met them, and as is well known around here after my first husband got screwed over by his business partner at the nightclub, I was the sole breadwinner for my family of 5 for 12 years and had my children in private faith based schools, we lived in an expensive area, and I provided a well-to-do lifestyle. Looking back, I should have perhaps been "hypergamous" but that is not how I was raised. I married for actual attraction, desire & love. And both husbands made/make six figures, but I never needed a man for resources along the way. Still don't in fact.
Nope. Nothing special in my book.lmao.
How do you know how much I get laid?
And how is putting up pictures of handsome men and rating them on a men’s pickup forum “weird “ .
I would think it’s HIGHLY relevant
And I notice it’s very much shied away from here for some bizarre reason.
As if Face doesn’t do almost all of the heavy lifting of attraction . Like you just reconfirmed with your example.
the opposite is weird AF in my world.
The exact ratings is the bit that is up for much discussion. As dudes here seem to live in a parallel universe where Dua Lipas partner , a former fashion model and actor is only a 7/10 in smv ( LMAO)
strip the celebrity, money and status away , a guy like Callum Turner STILL gets women that look like Dua Lipa. As he is tall dark and very handsome.
He’s at least a 9/10.
And 10/10 men like David Ghandy are so rare as to be outliers basically. So may as well exclude them.
So for all intents and purposes Turner is top tier.
He’s 6’2 and here he looks like the dictionary definition of a “Chad”. Lmao.
ONE woman saying “oh no he’s not type” means nothing. Some women will remark that about Clooney and Pitt ffs
It means less than nothing actually.
it ain’t worth spit babe
If you catch my drift ..
That’s about as useful as a fart in a spacesuit.
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a ‘nothing special ‘ guy , yesterday.
Feeling sorry for himself he only gets to Fvck chicks that look like Dua Lipa.
And not BE
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Absolute BollocksCallum turner has floppy ears and looks like dumbo
He is good looking, but not at the level you are implying. Plenty of dudes way better looking than him
At this point you are just trolling
Post filled with assumptions, strawmanning, and goal post moving.
Still LMFAO here BE.
of course there is.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
