"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rate this guys face plz

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Dude has 3 posts running asking us to rate dudes...

I rather rate women..even tho thats childish AF , its better than this ..
Why? What’s the problem with rating dudes looks..
We are on a dating discussion forum here.
Looks may account for 90% of women’s selection of men, for all we know.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm 5'8" and have an "X" physique. Imagine NFL linebacker. Probably the closest comparison and something I have been told I resemble since I was 12 or 13 because of my broad shoulders.
Thanks. I’m gonna have to make a cheat sheet on the members here to add context to their posts.

Is there such a thread with this info already?? I have seen a memeber location thread but not a stats one.

For example, I’ve gathered that Venom is possibly 6’5 tall and 200lbs + of muscle.
Which adds a lot of context to his Mode One strategy to me. I’m guessing he is a black dude also perhaps
 

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Why do you care so much about this?
I had to think about this question.
Because looks obvs matter. A LOT. For a guy to be a Don Juan type /be successful with women.
(im not talking just getting into one relationship as success here)

and game/personality very much Less so.
Like a very small slice of the pie imo.
Possibly only 10% factor of getting laid.

The major emphasis should be on Looksmaxxing.
I think Game strategies and personality are very much over discussed here. And it’s confusing not helpful.

that’s why I guess.
 

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Skull, jaw, hair, chin etc are a 7/10 = if his height is 175cm+. The 'bug' eyes may bring him down to a 6.
lol @ the bug eyes.
They are great eyes. V much heavy ‘Come to bed ‘ eyes or wicked thoughts kinda eyes.
That’s a better rating tho. I think him a solid 8 at least.
Cute/youthful/babyfaced guys generally slay IRL afaics. Women love that boyish youthful look and definitely love sexy eyes . 100%

the squinty Richard Gere eyes especially.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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lol @ the bug eyes.
They are great eyes. V much heavy ‘Come to bed ‘ eyes or wicked thoughts kinda eyes.
That’s a better rating tho. I think him a solid 8 at least.
Cute/youthful/babyfaced guys generally slay IRL afaics. Women love that boyish youthful look and definitely love sexy eyes . 100%

the squinty Richard Gere eyes especially.
Can you rate me via PM?
 
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