"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rate this guys face plz

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Dude has 3 posts running asking us to rate dudes...

I rather rate women..even tho thats childish AF , its better than this ..
Why? What’s the problem with rating dudes looks..
We are on a dating discussion forum here.
Looks may account for 90% of women’s selection of men, for all we know.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cheeky_James

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I'm 5'8" and have an "X" physique. Imagine NFL linebacker. Probably the closest comparison and something I have been told I resemble since I was 12 or 13 because of my broad shoulders.
Thanks. I’m gonna have to make a cheat sheet on the members here to add context to their posts.

Is there such a thread with this info already?? I have seen a memeber location thread but not a stats one.

For example, I’ve gathered that Venom is possibly 6’5 tall and 200lbs + of muscle.
Which adds a lot of context to his Mode One strategy to me. I’m guessing he is a black dude also perhaps
 

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Why do you care so much about this?
I had to think about this question.
Because looks obvs matter. A LOT. For a guy to be a Don Juan type /be successful with women.
(im not talking just getting into one relationship as success here)

and game/personality very much Less so.
Like a very small slice of the pie imo.
Possibly only 10% factor of getting laid.

The major emphasis should be on Looksmaxxing.
I think Game strategies and personality are very much over discussed here. And it’s confusing not helpful.

that’s why I guess.
 

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Skull, jaw, hair, chin etc are a 7/10 = if his height is 175cm+. The 'bug' eyes may bring him down to a 6.
lol @ the bug eyes.
They are great eyes. V much heavy ‘Come to bed ‘ eyes or wicked thoughts kinda eyes.
That’s a better rating tho. I think him a solid 8 at least.
Cute/youthful/babyfaced guys generally slay IRL afaics. Women love that boyish youthful look and definitely love sexy eyes . 100%

the squinty Richard Gere eyes especially.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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lol @ the bug eyes.
They are great eyes. V much heavy ‘Come to bed ‘ eyes or wicked thoughts kinda eyes.
That’s a better rating tho. I think him a solid 8 at least.
Cute/youthful/babyfaced guys generally slay IRL afaics. Women love that boyish youthful look and definitely love sexy eyes . 100%

the squinty Richard Gere eyes especially.
Can you rate me via PM?
 

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I offer a unique perspective
You’re an intensely hypergamous and attractive woman. You’ve gone for, and because of your looks, have succeeded in getting alpha males, which is how it works. This is the opposite of unique.

the world needs more solid men.
Real meaning: “The world needs more high-status and attractive men.”
 
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