That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Everything in life is supply & demand, and once one outstrips the other, the market goes haywire. Young men having a difficult time trying to get young, childless women are in the same spot as older women trying to get older men. It's the balance of life.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
YouTube philosopher Aaron Clarey had a video where he questioned whether women genuinely like men that much:
I wouldn't say young men are in quite as dire a situation as older women. A young man is virile and healthy (usually) and may yet mature into a more valuable male. Proximity alone can often result in some sexual gratification for young males. An older woman has no more hope of bearing children, she's on the downhill slide.
They certainly are not worthless, and they definitely have value. Most girls would like to date guys their own age (or slightly older). These are the guys in their social circles, that they grow up with, that they have a lot in common with, that are close by logistically. There is a built in intimacy in that. But for the young guys who don't do well, they can take comfort in knowing that they can increase their value, and might do better a little later in life as they increase their maturity, independence, skills, confidence, love making skills, etc. All things that matter. And I'll include "game" in that, even though I really don't like the term.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'm curious, why don't you like the term "game"?
It just sounds like you're being dishonest, like it's all a lie to manipulate each other. That's not the way I prefer to look at it. I'm not really interested in playing games, to me it's just life.