"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Dating Market Explained

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I don't really like posting videos, but I thought this one was interesting.
It talks about why men have it tough in the dating market (seems mainly because of their preferences for younger women).

But wow, sounds like older women are the ones who really have it rough, they seem left out almost entirely. Being an older man myself, I do know older women who are dating (most are dating older men). But I also know older women who seem to have given up, or just have no interest in dating.

Everything in life is supply & demand, and once one outstrips the other, the market goes haywire. Young men having a difficult time trying to get young, childless women are in the same spot as older women trying to get older men. It's the balance of life.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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More women being in relationships and less women being single isn't surprising. The fact there's more single men isn't surprising. The lesbian thing I didn't think of, but I wouldn't be surprised if more women shared guys than the other way around.
YouTube philosopher Aaron Clarey had a video where he questioned whether women genuinely like men that much:


This had gotten the Evolutionist in me to deduce that, indeed, Clarey's insight is accurate, and that it has only been the social memes of patriarchy & monogamy that have "kept women in line" such that women whose instinctual desire would be to not have a Normie husband ended up having such a Normie husband. Of course, the women of today that are rejecting the Normie men but also not getting knocked up by Chad will have their genes erased from the gene pool, so there will less of a problem in the future (the beauty of Evolution is that it always works in the end).
 

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Everything in life is supply & demand, and once one outstrips the other, the market goes haywire. Young men having a difficult time trying to get young, childless women are in the same spot as older women trying to get older men. It's the balance of life.
I wouldn't say young men are in quite as dire a situation as older women. A young man is virile and healthy (usually) and may yet mature into a more valuable male. Proximity alone can often result in some sexual gratification for young males. An older woman has no more hope of bearing children, she's on the downhill slide.
 
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