"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Dating Market Explained

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I don't really like posting videos, but I thought this one was interesting.
It talks about why men have it tough in the dating market (seems mainly because of their preferences for younger women).

But wow, sounds like older women are the ones who really have it rough, they seem left out almost entirely. Being an older man myself, I do know older women who are dating (most are dating older men). But I also know older women who seem to have given up, or just have no interest in dating.

Everything in life is supply & demand, and once one outstrips the other, the market goes haywire. Young men having a difficult time trying to get young, childless women are in the same spot as older women trying to get older men. It's the balance of life.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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More women being in relationships and less women being single isn't surprising. The fact there's more single men isn't surprising. The lesbian thing I didn't think of, but I wouldn't be surprised if more women shared guys than the other way around.
YouTube philosopher Aaron Clarey had a video where he questioned whether women genuinely like men that much:


This had gotten the Evolutionist in me to deduce that, indeed, Clarey's insight is accurate, and that it has only been the social memes of patriarchy & monogamy that have "kept women in line" such that women whose instinctual desire would be to not have a Normie husband ended up having such a Normie husband. Of course, the women of today that are rejecting the Normie men but also not getting knocked up by Chad will have their genes erased from the gene pool, so there will less of a problem in the future (the beauty of Evolution is that it always works in the end).
 

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Everything in life is supply & demand, and once one outstrips the other, the market goes haywire. Young men having a difficult time trying to get young, childless women are in the same spot as older women trying to get older men. It's the balance of life.
I wouldn't say young men are in quite as dire a situation as older women. A young man is virile and healthy (usually) and may yet mature into a more valuable male. Proximity alone can often result in some sexual gratification for young males. An older woman has no more hope of bearing children, she's on the downhill slide.
 
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