"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do some women genuinely think that it is sexy for a young man to be balding?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this:
Her own husband went bald in his late teens. “I think it’s incredibly sexy,” McGarvie said. “As a sex therapist, I’ve never once had a client complain their partner was bald.”
my opinion: This is pre-selection; the only way a man makes it past the bald door is if the gal considers the totality of him to overcome the demerits for being bald. What is missing from this analysis is that the normie who otherwise might have had a chance but for his baldness is rejected from the start.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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For the past few decades, lots of men viewed as epitomies of virility(The Rock, Vin Diesel, Jason Statham, S.J. Jackson)have rocked the shaved head. This is no deterrent to the "right" sort of man
 

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Depends on how you define bald. If you're going full shaved head and pairing that with being fit, stylish clothing, etc then it can be a very effective look. If you're talking about the dreaded ring of shame paired with a paunchy sloppy appearance then its basically a death sentence. Like with most things in life the details matter.
 

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I do believe, like for us men, there is a minority of us that like chubby over thin women, there might be a reason that some women might like those balding men over those hairy ones.
 
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The Rock made up for his bald head due to his robust Samoan heritage (masculine, big, jacked, manly and tanned skin). So did Jason Statham, he has a masculine skull/face, jaw, great stubble coverage, muscular body, tanned skin, brow ridge etc. They would still both look good with head hair though.

Baldness only "enhances ugliness" if your lacking facial masculinity, are pale, lack beard growth, have an oval non-square jaw etc. Guys like that look way better with full heads of hair.

 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Rock made up for his bald head due to his robust Samoan heritage (masculine, big, jacked, manly and tanned skin). So did Jason Statham, he has a masculine skull/face, jaw, great stubble coverage, muscular body, tanned skin, brow ridge etc. They would still both look good with head hair though.

Baldness only "enhances ugliness" if your lacking facial masculinity, are pale, lack beard growth, have an oval non-square jaw etc. Guys like that look way better with full heads of hair.

You don't want the Bowling Ball look, nor the Thumb look, or the Terminal Illness looks.

Have some stubble, get on a sunbed, and be lean. That is all.
 

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Do some women genuinely think that it is sexy for a young man to be balding?
Sure, if some men genuinely think that is sexy for a young women to be fat.
 

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Sure, if some men genuinely think that is sexy for a young women to be fat.
Well there is some weird mass fetish for huge fat arses and thighs in recent years.

But it's a false comparison anyway.
 

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Well there is some weird mass fetish for huge fat arses and thighs in recent years.

But it's a false comparison anyway.
What is a true comparison?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well there is some weird mass fetish for huge fat arses and thighs in recent years.

But it's a false comparison anyway.
I like a large safe-birth-canal pelvis. It also is the hardest thing for a tranny to reconstruct well. :rolleyes:
 
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