"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Does she qualify for a LTR?

tesla8520

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Hi there guys!
Met this chick and I'm testing wheter this is good for LTR or not.

She has 28 years, no kids, AFAIK, she had 5 boyfriends, and 4 relationships from 3 to 6 months each, then a 6 year relationship.
Then today. Her BC is probably between 10 to 20 (my assumption).
Those guys were all good men, no drug addict or criminals. 3 guys were form her circle, while 3 from outside

She's a 8 but a bit fat so 7 now, and have very feminine attitude and maneerism.
She's really good at sex and company

I'm looking for a woman who have her needs met, and she does, but want company, sex, and maybe in 2 years from now, we can talk about bigger things such as living togheter, kids, and so on.

Do you think her past relationships log would tell us she's not qualified for a LTR?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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UK manc

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"AFAIK, she had 5 boyfriends, and 4 relationships from 3 to 6 months each, then a 6 year relationship."

I'm not sure how you'd get to know this.

Buy anyway...sounds like an MTR to me. M for Medium.
 

BackInTheGame78

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That's a zoom out overview which may or may not be accurate because a lot of this is guesswork by you. As such, that doesn't really help you much.

At the end of the day, her behavior and what you find out over a 3-4 month or longer period of time will tell you what you need to know.

If you are paying attention that is.
 

Gamisch

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Stop focusing on LTR cohabitation, marriage ect

Just have FUN, and promote her after every 3 months. That means after 3 months yall dating, and 6 months yall can call it a LTR.

Regardless of her experiences with men yesterday , it's about how she treats YOU today
 

tesla8520

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That means after 3 months yall dating, and 6 months yall can call it a LTR.
Yes I have a schedule for that.


it's about how she treats YOU today
At the end of the day she could be someone like valentina nappi, but yes, it's how she treats and respect me and the relationship.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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