Face is always more valuable than height.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Brutal HeightPill: 6ft4 dude changes his height from 6ft4 to an average 5ft9 and go's from getting a constant 70 matches to 0.
- Thread starter Identikit_Radiohead
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
MR ANDREW J BROWN
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Slight bump for this thread.. as per a conversation I had last night..
A text convo I should add. But. So this lady i 'met' online a while ago.. chat fizzled out. She got with somebody etc etc.. I still occasionally speak to her as we share one or teo common interests, but no romantic levels are involved..
She sent me a 'meme about a short guy still being attractive sometimes'.. slightly odd, but I was fairly non plussed by it, she said it was playful etc..and that its just a worldwide generic preference.. probably mostly correct..
Ten minutes later. Went on to say how she'd received so much nastiness over her weight.. and how it was just soul destroying.. Which obviously i dont wish anyone to feel like this, at all.. Nobody should be shamed into sadness or regret over their aesthetic, but it amused me that women hating/ignoring shorter men is just a preference. Men not being into bigger gals is cruel.. same fcuking thing isnt it.?
A text convo I should add. But. So this lady i 'met' online a while ago.. chat fizzled out. She got with somebody etc etc.. I still occasionally speak to her as we share one or teo common interests, but no romantic levels are involved..
She sent me a 'meme about a short guy still being attractive sometimes'.. slightly odd, but I was fairly non plussed by it, she said it was playful etc..and that its just a worldwide generic preference.. probably mostly correct..
Ten minutes later. Went on to say how she'd received so much nastiness over her weight.. and how it was just soul destroying.. Which obviously i dont wish anyone to feel like this, at all.. Nobody should be shamed into sadness or regret over their aesthetic, but it amused me that women hating/ignoring shorter men is just a preference. Men not being into bigger gals is cruel.. same fcuking thing isnt it.?
RoadKing_Rabbit
Senior Don Juan
More like FIFTY.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.