"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Anyone think that online dating and IG is essentially a weak move?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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zekko

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Unfortunately, it has become part of the modern dating process. A woman can meet you through an app, mutual friends, or in person and then use your IG to get more context about who you are. It shows your social life, interests, lifestyle, friends, and how other people interact with you. They use the app to get enough context and information to verify who you are and feel more comfortable with you; it is part of the vetting process.
I've refused to join Facebook, and I'm not on Instagram or other apps either. In some ways I'm happy about this, but in others I'm sure I've missed out on some things.
 

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This WW analysis came up on my YT feed.


Interesting data for the good looking dude.

-> 6 days on the app
-> 2,523 swipes total(420 swipes/ day)
-> 68 chats
…Resulting in 4 dates

pretty crap return on time investment.

‘GigaChad’ needs better Game :rofl:
unless this guy was using a new phone number for the good looking guy's tinder account, the algorithm probably associated his phone number with the uglier dude despite new pics.

so I think the entire "study" is bull****.
 

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unless this guy was using a new phone number for the good looking guy's tinder account, the algorithm probably associated his phone number with the uglier dude despite new pics.

so I think the entire "study" is bull****.
Yeah, that’s a good point. Tinder does everything they can to make sure you can’t “reset” and get a fresh start.
 

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I mean.. 4 dates in 6 days tho. lol.
I’d like to see the 4 women, plus how they looked IRL vs their pics. That’s a lot sunk time in swiping and texting 68 to get 4 out.

Rough guesstimate in time would be 26 hours. Lot of work,

unless this guy was using a new phone number for the good looking guy's tinder account, the algorithm probably associated his phone number with the uglier dude despite new pics.

so I think the entire "study" is bull****.
It’s his friend, some influencer named MensMaxxing.


..who has one hell of a jawline. Woah.

I did OLD heavily for 4 months this year & got 25 dates or so..but it was a TON of matches and work. I had 100+ chats going.
those numbers look real to me.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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In my view, you take the vast majority of men out there and you put them in a catalog, you will get the exact same things.

1) Men boasting about their money and their job titles
2) Men posting pictures of themselves in order to show their cars, watches, and lifestyle
3) Men clearly telegraphing how badly they want to get laid or be in a relationship
4) Men revealing tons of information about themselves without even getting a date
5) Excessive smiling

To me I look at this and I just think everything about it signals weakness, desperation, low self worth, and lack of mystery. None of these men really have any "edge", they are just copies of each other. Is it no surprise that online dating is horrible?
 

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I’d like to see the 4 women, plus how they looked IRL vs their pics. That’s a lot sunk time in swiping and texting 68 to get 4 out.

Rough guesstimate in time would be 26 hours. Lot of work,



It’s his friend, some influencer named MensMaxxing.


..who has one hell of a jawline. Woah.

I did OLD heavily for 4 months this year & got 25 dates or so..but it was a TON of matches and work. I had 100+ chats going.
those numbers look real to me.
Sheesh. At that level of time investment the person in the video would’ve been better off going to the bar. lol.
 

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Any weak move done well is a strong move.
 
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