Recent content by TomN

She's 20, I'm 21, her first relationship, dating 5 1/2 months. It's the last night here at college for my GF and I and she told me a few days ago that she was going to go to a friend's graduation party that was recently planned, as it's her friend's last night ever down here. I was looking...

...and not only did she say it back, she has said it to me since then. If you are ready to say it, then say it. There are no "rules" as to who should say it first.

Everything went great last night. I slipped the card under her door between classes. I was going to give her the rose when I picked her up, but she called me telling me she had a few things she needed to do and that she'd drive over instead of my picking her up. When she got here she had...

Happiness is what you make it. If some house, some car, etc. makes me happy then who the hell are you to say that's wrong? Why MUST I figure this out alone? You say you're born alone, but is this true for most? You're average person within the masses has almost always had someone to turn...

Yeah, I agree, but I really don't think I'm giving that much with the bracelet. Giving a bouquet of flowers would probably end up costing me just as much as expensive as they tend to run during Valentines Day. Not to mention a bracelet lasts a hell of a lot longer, plus I know it's something...

That's actually a good idea ethno, I'm by her dorm throughout the day so I'll slip in and throw the card under her door as I pass by. I completely agree with not confessing my undying love for her. I tried to find a card that avoided saying I love her, I don't particularly want the first time...

Yeah, I kind of thought the bracelet may be a bit too much, but I know it's something that fits her style and I got a good deal on it so I decided to buy it. Originally I was planning just to do the rose and the card.

I've been dating my GF for about 3 months now. I bought her a bracelet for $35 (caught a nice deal, it's selling online now for $120), a card (plan to say something how the relationship has been great some far, can't wait to see where it goes from here), and a single red rose. I'm going to...

This is an extremely refreshing post compaired to what I usually see on this website. I've never had the intention of becoming a PUA or player while reading through various posts the last couple years I've been a member. Sure it's fun to be with multiple women each month but that got old for...

I'm in the same situation you're in right now. I started dating a girl a few weeks before break started and everything is going great so far. We've spoken on the phone every other night so far, and she's been the one who's made almost all of the phone calls, I've only called her once. We've...

My last girlfriend was a virgin and was pretty shy when we first met, she opened up to sex however, this girl just never brings up the topic. I know it's not an interest thing, hell, the last thing she said when she got out of the car was I had a great time and then kissed me. Not only that...

I've been hanging out with this girl a bit the past couple weeks and have been loving it. I've made comments and jokes with sexual undertones and everything, but the topic never really comes up. I know it's not because of interest level, she calls a lot and has slept over here a few times...

Yeah, I'm going to try to push her toward it more next time I'm with her, I'll go as far as she lets me. I don't know, generally I wait a bit on sex if I consider a girl to be LTR material, the first time is better when you know each other more. Everytime I've rushed into sex it's always been...

Trying to take it slow I guess. I don't have a good reason why, I'd rather things flow naturally than try to push her into it. Like I said, I'd like to get a relationship with her, and I've only been going out with her two weeks now. Plus I really don't think she's the type that would take...

Yeah, but nothing happened last night, didn't even get the chance to kiss her, but I suppose everything is good. I would like to see where she thinks the relationship is going, but I guess I'll let her bring up the topic. Any suggestions as to how I could bring that topic up somehow?