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Seriously, this is the most sickening thing ever. Background: She 36, he 40. Been a couple since late teens. Two kids. They were the epitome of the perfect family and many ppl in our social circle regarded them as en example of a very healthy and happy couple. Turns out she had sex with...

Is that I'd rather have a woman with a sexual past than a virgin who will marry me and get so curious of sex with other men that she'll cheat on my twice or even more just to satisfy that curiosity. One of my best pals just found this out. Busted his wife when she accidentally left her email...

I didn't think at all. The events just unfolded. Anyway, interesting that at least some others experience the same hormonal surge as I do. Because it's all hormonal. It has nothing to do about the girl or how attracted I am to her. Anyway...sex was good. I want good sex. So today I picked...

No, not really.....I just haven't pickd up the phone yet....

Has any of you felt this? I'm talking about a rush of hormones (Oxytoxin?) during tha act and a feeling of sadness and loneliness when their effect tapers of. This weekend I met a woman at a party and ended up having sex in her apartment. Once in the night and yet again in the morning...

"The last impression she had of him is sitting on the phone with her for however long AFTER she told him she was gonna be with this other dude. Pretty different from the last impression you left.[" Four minutes, tops. Felt like forever though since I hate talking on the phone.

Yeah, this is what I don't understand either. But thank's for your advice. I'll certainly not supplicate to her or try to "befriend" her or anything like that! But but.....

Hey Guys! I have been out of the loop for some years but as I'm single (happily!!!) again I need some help to get going again! A few weeks ago I met very intriguing 35-year old (I'm 40) lady and we hit it off quite well. I didn't number close her that evening because I was sure I'd meet...

Thanks a lot for your thoughts guys! In one way I'm very fortunate...I work in a fileld where 75 percent consists of women, so at least I will meet lots of women at various ages. But still...I'm scared. All of my freinds are married and have kids so their focus is in their families now....

Thanks for your replies guys but I was really looking for thoughts from people my age and up. someone who has been leavin an LTR/Marriage at tha age of 35-40. How did you cope? Any regrets?

Ya....but isn't that just a lot of wishful thinking?

Well friends...seems like the right time has come for me to end my relationship and try to have my final period in life of amourous advetures.;) But somehow being 37 and single scares me. Look at most women at this age...they have either kids or tons of emotional baggage or are simply...

Well guys....i have to admit that I actually bailed out tonight. Sorry! I went to her place...we kissed and then she went serious and wanted "to talk". Then she started saying how much she felt for me and that she wanted our "relationship" to grow and blah blah and I suddenly saw warning...

Gentlemen, Thanks a lot for your replies! I have had several months to ponder the consequenses and the moral issue of my situation, and I would certainly not go ahead with this if I wasn't certain that I will never get caught. Believe me, I WILL break our engagement in the coming year...

Hey Guys, First let me thank you all for this forum. It's really a great place for exchanging information. I'm in an LTR with a 12 year older woman. She loves me to death but I'm beginning to realize I shoudn't be with her at all, never mind sharing an apartment with her. However, moving...