Recent content by Stud No1

its very clear shes made a decision to have him over you not sure what you're missing here? you were never considering potential boyfriend or more....now "you're out of sight out of mind". leave the chick alone. you might get a text here and there, esp when she's on bad terms with the bf...

take the joke - even laugh but make sure 1- you give as good as you get and 2- you dont become the usual easy target. If its evenly spread (these pranks) between ur mates then no harm

Tough lesson learned buddy Seriously, experience is a harsh teacher - thats the saying and it fits here. Never ever get drawn into anything like this regardless of how small or trivial it seems at the time. In fact, only console in your most reliable friends because, lets be honest, theres so...

Well i dont really disagree with any of that either. But i should say, i know some girls who would never have sex outside a relationship despite being self-professed horny mofos. Not that that contradicts what you say, all im saying is, for that level of "comfort" to be reached depends on the...

Maybe she didn't say yes or no because she wasn't sure. You showing that you are absolutely no fun made up her mind for her. You're afraid of working for things, well thats the way of the world. You get what you deserve and with your attitude you'll continue getting the same results.

Cool, well there ya go i guess! Sounds like she is content to have you as a bf figure without the sex, and you want the sex without the gf figure. You threatened to take away the bf figure and she gave in (to a degree). You're both using one another, arguably.

Ah c'mon man you're being overly simplistic. Yes every girl has such tendencies insofar as they are natural, but some girls expound upon very slutty behavior that other girls would never. e.g. a gangbang. extreme example yes, but the point goes, or at least very rarely would. Thats a HUGE...

Dude, you're carved yourself a reputation at work for being a boring ass, right? Then you ask her out and expect her to just say "yes". I mean, the profile you've built for yourself clearly spells "loser". Its up to you to change that, to get out more, mingle with people and generally get a...

Walk away man

oh, regarding your question about contacting her - i dunno. Have you guys exchanged txts before? If not, i maybe would leave it. Maybe wait til xmas to send her a "Happy Christmas" text and go from there.

sounds like you're a social robot trying to calculate every social power transfer than occurs, every tiny detail. That's a bad start my friend No way can you be your best self by over-analyzing in that manner, you sound far too conscious of how you're appearing in class. Be natural. As for...

Ok heres the story I met this girl a month ago, we're getting on quite well - quite alot of contact, texts and phone calls (some crazy 4 hour long calls). Basically, we get on like a house on fire. Been on just the one date but have met up several other times too at bars and stuff. My...

Ok dude, here's my last bit of advice. Go home whenever suits YOU, but don't contact her. If she can't take the initiative to make some contact then that's her problem, but you'll be lowering your value by making another attempt at contact, showing you need her more than she needs you...

Dude, you didn't let ANYONE down, not yourself, not anyone on here. Remember that. Don't start double guessing yourself because one girl didn't respond like you would have liked; i mean, she's hardly perfect, how could her actions influence how you think about yourself? They shouldn't. One...

dude, relax, everything sounds good. don't fret out so quickly, be care-free. the way u just posted shows how you think and how you think is how you act and talk. so thinking negatively abotu how you might "blow it" will give her that vibe. why act like you need her more than she needs you...