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- The best girl for you is could be called ‘cute’ with a decent body and generally happy personality, and be open to her arriving in your life. Many guys are so intent looking for that fabulous diamond, they don’t see the basket of pearls at their feet. The healthiest mindset for you to have...

A Few Things I've Learned - You must have something going for you. You must have at least one of the following: a solid hobby that challenges you physically and mentally, a musical talent that you enjoy, a good job, a good major in school that reflects your true life ambition, a super...

Duh, what kind of test? Blood? Intelligence? Fashion sense? Interest in you? If it's interest in you, have you dated her yet? How long? Did she kiss you on the lips no later than the second date?

Tell her you're planning on going to get a sub at a local deli, then have a game of miniature golf, starting at 7pm next Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday or Thursday night (pick one weeknight, NOT Friday, Saturday or Sunday) and that you'd like her to join you. If she's got a man, or is otherwise...

dswens, this is your first post and because of the desperate, needy, whiny, thinking this is the only girl in the universe for you, wimpiness, you probably won't get many replies here. You won't get many replies because you haven't read any part of the DJ Bible (linked at the top of the page)...

The only way to handle this is to ask her on an actual weeknight, fun-activity 'date'. You'll have to tell her your plan, a time you'll want to meet her, and when it will end. Example: "Hi Suzy, next Tuesday night I was planning on going over to Cheddar's for a pizza, then to Hooligan's for...

Awareness of a problem is already half the solution. You're aware of the problem, which means you're ahead of the game. Awareness promotes action. Action promotes change. It won't happen overnight, but your awareness IS your tool. Many guys haven't even gotten as far as you have, so be...

Geez man, why don't you just change your name/handle to "I'm a complete, clueless IDIOT." Sheesh. Can't you read the d*mn book? If you don't like it, send the #$%^ thing back! He gives you a 30-day, money-back guarantee. You should be able to read the entire book in 3-4 days, even...

The previous girl was starting to give it up, but had such trouble with intimacy. She was gorgeous too, but it just didn't work out. I was fortunate enough to meet this new girl only a week or so after the last one was finally gone but dated her only 'as friends', and as luck would have it...

This is a reply to "Just Can't Succeed" post regarding Doc Love's System I hate to hijack JCS's original post, so replied here. Like unexpected rocks underwater that will damage or sink a boat, so are insecurities in a relationship the more intimate you get. So many of the replies spotted...

Agree with Sg. If you were from another planet and first saw automobiles, highways, signs and stop lights, you'd probably find the entire system bewildering until you understood the rules of the road. Until you understood how speed limits, signposts and traffic lights operated, you'd...

Guys, I've been in a relationship for the past few months. It started off slow, but seemed to be building. She did everthing correctly on the first few dates such as kiss closing, eye contact, kino, everything. Not only is this woman smart but she's beautiful and very sexy/provocative...

Scenario: You've been dating for a couple of months (60 days) she's gorgeous ("8"+) and have had sex at least twice. What would she do, say, show, or divulge about herself that would make you immediately dump her? I include a partial list for your consideration: -body piercing...

A friend just emailed this to me. Interesting: "Dr. Phil" http://www.drphil.com/show/cutw.jhtmloriginally introduced this test on his TV show. See how you do. =========================================================== 1. When do you feel your best? a)...

You should get an all-black costume, wear goth-death warmed over makeup (a la Marilyn Manson) and some of those vampire party teeth. Begin being more weird than he is. DUDE, SNAP OUT OF IT! WTF is wrong with this picture? You wrote "Listen closely you might be confused". No sh*t to...