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I don't want to sound too much like Dr Phill, but Love is a verb. You may be bored /because/ there's no fighting (and the following makeup sex). It's all easy, and you probably look for some excitement. So go do something fun with your wife. Date her. Court her. Make an effort to get some...

mmm. let's say you're at the altar and you're thinking this... are you gonna marry her because "everythign will be better"? Agree with others, red flag 1 may cause problems. I couldn't live with it, but everybody has his own standards.

after or during reading the Book of Pook, watch The Tao of Steve. Nice summary of the rules of the game are: 1. Be desireless. 2. Be excellent. 3. Be gone. (leave her wanting more)

Remember this moment and feeling. It may last another few weeks, or perhaps a few months. It may fade and it may come back now and then. Just remember this. Why? Next time, same situation, you will know there will be another around the corner. Then you'd have forgotten about this one, and be...

Just wait and see. Don't check her out on facebook, preferably forget about it. If she's interested she'll get back. If not, then there's nothing you can do.

Rubato: not sure but I think I detect a bit of a "if only" pattern: if only you were an MD already, if only you had achieved this or that. As if you want to become more complete... add more to yourself? Maybe I'm wrong. Just my own personal experience. Not content with life, with what's...

Get a nice pair of glasses. I get loads of compliments on mine. Girls start talking to me about it.

This is a normal reaction. Like some said already, you don't miss her, you just don't like being alone, and are afraid of missing out. You think you owned her, or still do. People always want what they can't get. Went through this myself very recently. Recovering now, but still tough...

Don't date at work. It will cause problems later on. Not worth it.

If you think you can handle it wrt your depression, then do it. Don't attach to her, but treat her with respect.

I suppose my eyes were still wandering. It is a common phenomenon that other girls pay more attention to you if you're dating someone. As if they can smell it. It seems to be true. I had all sorts of opportunities, and had a hard time to don't do anything with those. Another reason was maybe...

Thanks for you input PPRF. I did like her, I do like her, she's amazing w.r.t stuff she's done in her life. There is absolutely nothing wrong with her this makes it so difficult to let her go! So, "the best I can get", yes, because I've never met someone who's "better"... I do sound needy...

hi, lurker for a while, not posted much. 31yo, and a bad case of oneitis. Feedback and support greatly appreciated. I'll keep it short. May 2010: started dating a girl in the same building as where I work. August 2010: I expressed doubt about where things were going, as I was maybe not very...

Forget Facebook, grow up! Don't be upset by WHATEVER she does. More fish in the sea, but patience is needed. Attachment to any girl that has clearly no commitment to you is a waste of time.

Agree with all the above. Don't invest more emotions if you already got the "back off" sign. Perhaps you came on too strong ("sweet"?) earlier on and she started to freak out. Better go NC rather than keep texting her. My 2c.