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This girl I dm’d who I found on bumble just like s ten of my pictures on IG. She does have over 24K followers so I’m guessing she just wants me to follow her, but is it possible she’s interested? She hasn’t responded to my dm yet or followed me.

Recently I came across this girl on bumble who only listed her IG handle in her description, I decided to DM her not really expecting anything out of it. She responds and after a few messages we eventually meet up for coffee. However, when I initially brought up getting to know her offline, she...

I mean I'm not hung up on her, I'm definitely still swiping, but she is one of the hotter girls that reached out and with interest too.

This girl on Bumble 'extended' me a few days ago and messages me about a day later saying 'apologies for the generic hello - I've been inundated all week. will send a proper hello soon.' That was followed by a kiss emoji and a blushing emoji. I responded 'no worries at all. we are all busy :)'...

It could be true she was just making convo, but everywhere I've read, they said it means they're interested.

Lol but should I read into it?

It was in a non flirty way, otherwise I wouldn't be asking. They weren't cheek to cheek air kisses either, which are pretty commonly done. I was pretty surprised when she did this because it was the first time she did it and we run into each other all the time. This girl also asked what my plans...

So i saw her last night, and suggested (not sure if this is considered "creepy") that we should get together, basically she said after the 13th is better for her. This time she offered another suggestion!

That could come off as being desperate, even if she was interested. Perhaps she's trying to play hard to get, but I can't see that. I think I need to provide more context of the situation. There were signs that I think showed she was interested early on. Then she went on vacation for almost a...

I mean she is known to be flaky, I'm not sure if that plays into it. For instance she took multiple days to respond to my friend who is married with kids and has no interest in her, then when she did respond she rescheduled their meeting.

How do you suggest I press her? I feel like it would be weird to bring it up again since it's been a while since I asked her.

I can be shy but I'm usually pretty confident. I think saying what she did in her response, was putting me down in a nice way and saying she's not interested without saying no. Which is how I took it. She's also known to be flaky, so there's that.

For maybe five minutes each time, and we were involved in seperate convos each time.

I mean there were others in our immediate circle so it would've been weird to bring it up then.

I was pretty sure this girl liked me, she asked me what I was doing one night on a call, showed up to the same party I ended up, and seemed pretty interested in getting coffee when she got back from vacation, she said to reconnect when she got back. So I did, I asked her out on a coffee date, it...