Recent content by FortunateSon

This girl turned me down a month ago, she was busy, yeah she wasn't interested, no dramas, I am spinning other plates, so no issue there. She then spent the next few weeks blowing hot and cold i.e. ignoring me when she walked past, talking to one of my buddies who was standing next to me, never...

I never really gave her much attention, she got the same level of attention from me that I give everyone else who isn't a close friend or a girl that I'm actually seeing which isn't a lot of attention. I echo your second sentence which is what I'm doing and my friend reckons that she likes...

I'm beginning to realize this now. I'm going to take on board what you say, as every time I ask someone out that I see regularly things become awkward. She's been blowing hot and cold with me which has led me to just ignore her now. I was going to remain civil towards her, albeit indifferent...

Hey guys! Hope you're all well! About a month ago or so a girl rejected me, she said she was too busy, so I brushed it off and carried on usual and for a few weeks after the girl seemed to be avoiding me, I saw her around less often. I didn't really mind, I didn't really care, well fast...

Thanks! This is the approach I am taking! I've laid down my mark, signalled my intent and that's all I'm prepared to do. If the girl thinks I'm going to spend weeks or months chasing after her, then she has another thing coming. I don't play games, I don't chase and I don't pursue relentless...

Hell no! I'd rather remain single for the rest of my life then be settled for. I just don't know how a man can ask a girl out again after he has been rejected. To me it just seems so desperate, it seems as though the guy has built this girl up into something she's not, put her on a pedestal...

I respect your opinion man, but the stuff going on in her life is of no concern to me. If she has stuff going on and doesn't have time to go out and get to know me, that's cool, but she's missed her window of opportunity as I won't ask more than once. Now if she was to ever want something to...

I'm only going to ask a girl out once, if I get anything other than a 'yes', I'm just going to move on! I'm not wasting time on a girl that isn't interested and the ball is in her court, if she wants anything to happen, she can grow a pair and come and tell me and I'll make a decision from...

That's according to people I know who know both me and her, I have no idea if she liked me or not, I just saw what I wanted and went for it. Something which I'm very proud of doing considering most guys will spend weeks/months overanalyzing situations and never finding the balls to walk up to a...

Last week I asked a girl out, she turned me down, she's really nice about it, I appreciated it and that was that. She started getting awkward around me, she then proceeded to ignore me, so I just gave her space, she acts as though I didn't exist. So I'm cool with this, it's her way of...

I know exactly why a lot of women reject me for my height and I don't really care, it hasn't stopped me from attracting some gorgeous women. As I say there's a girl I'm in the process of pursuing and she is much taller than me and if she has a problem with my height then that's cool, I'll...

I don't get the problem my fellow short men have with their height. I know that we short men are less desirable to women than taller men and apparently we will be less successful in our careers than taller men, but none of that bothers me. I'm 5ft 5inches and my height has never been a...

Woah, dude, sh*t just got serious! How did the hell do you go from seeing a girl to her threatening to phone the police?

The truth is the best thing a man can do when it comes to women is not be outcome dependent. I no longer feel outcome dependent, I can handle rejection and I no longer put all my stock in women or a positive outcome. If a woman is interested and I feel the same way then let's see where it...

If you're looking to get laid off poor quality women with more issues than a UN security council meeting then yes, you probably will. However only low quality men have the life ambition to get laid continuously by different women. Who would I rather be? Some jerk with who scores with...