FortunateSon
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 25, 2010
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Last week I asked a girl out, she turned me down, she's really nice about it, I appreciated it and that was that.
She started getting awkward around me, she then proceeded to ignore me, so I just gave her space, she acts as though I didn't exist. So I'm cool with this, it's her way of dealing with the situation.
If she ever approaches me to talk, I won't be bitter or anything, she'll get treated the same way as anyone else does.
Now apparently this girl is shy and likes me, but yet has rejected me, so I don't believe she likes me at all and to be honest after the rejection, I couldn't care less, I'm cutting my loss and moving on with life.
My male friend thinks that my "ask once only" rule is immature. Basically I have always had a rule where I will only ask a girl out once if the girl rejects me, regardless of the reason, I will never ask her out again, even if I still like that girl. If the girl wants to pursue something with me after rejecting me, I immediately slap the let's be friends line on her.
Is this a good attitude to have or am I being a bitter man who can't handle rejection despite the initial rejection not fazing me at all?
She started getting awkward around me, she then proceeded to ignore me, so I just gave her space, she acts as though I didn't exist. So I'm cool with this, it's her way of dealing with the situation.
If she ever approaches me to talk, I won't be bitter or anything, she'll get treated the same way as anyone else does.
Now apparently this girl is shy and likes me, but yet has rejected me, so I don't believe she likes me at all and to be honest after the rejection, I couldn't care less, I'm cutting my loss and moving on with life.
My male friend thinks that my "ask once only" rule is immature. Basically I have always had a rule where I will only ask a girl out once if the girl rejects me, regardless of the reason, I will never ask her out again, even if I still like that girl. If the girl wants to pursue something with me after rejecting me, I immediately slap the let's be friends line on her.
Is this a good attitude to have or am I being a bitter man who can't handle rejection despite the initial rejection not fazing me at all?